Am I overreacting?

[Silver]

Deleting in case he ever finds my laptop and goes on this site.

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Thanks for the advice! I was worried I wouldn't get any responses. We had a big argument later that night about other stuff that was bugging us.
When we made up he was like he wants me to be pregnant before we get married. I asked him if that's because he will not commit unless I am. We were done arguing at this point. I think he should try to marry me first. He is one of the only one of his friends and siblings with no child. The other guys with no children are one or two years younger than him. But I guess he thinks it's his time.

 

[dplyrooted]

Yeah I think you are overreacting a little bit.
We want men to tell us how they really feel, and then we bite their heads off when they are being honest.

 

[Silver]

Alright. I will take that. It just has me thinking why should I have his baby if that's not sexy to him. I know he likes pregnant women and babies... he told me that a while ago. It's almost like him telling me he doesn't like me or won't like me then. He wants me to check if I look good pregnant. Makes me wonder, he is strange.

 

[dplyrooted]

Ask him is that what he was doing checking to see if you would look sexy pregnant.

 

[Silver]

He came off the phone already. He's mad that I didn't appologize to him and take back what I said.

 

[Tallone]

Wow! This is really immature. He's not ready for any babies

 

[Bunny77]

Actually, I think you're overreacting to the wrong thing and underreacting to the real issue.

Who cares about the Chinese and Filipino women? Why is he wanting to have a baby right now when he's apparently not saying a word about making you his wife first?

 

[NYAmicas]

How old are you two? And what other strange things does he say? Something dont sound right here.

 

[jamaicalovely]

I would feel some kinda way. And I agree with Bunny, he should be asking if you would look sexy with a ring on it.