Glamorous_chic
Well-Known Member
well i had a very eventfull night last night, but i'm afraid i may have overreacted about a situation, although i'm still very pissed. i've been dating someone for the past few months, and at first i wasnt really interested, but i enjoyed the attention, and he was always very respectful, attentive, and i did enjoy our conversations, and i always had fun with him. but i was never really "attracted" physically to him. he's not a bad looking guy, but i was just not attracted. but, recently, i've found that i'm really starting to like him. like, i get butterflies when i'm around him, get anxious when i dont hear from him, which honestly i dont like. only b/c i feel like the tables are turning, and i'm trying my best keep from "chasing" him b/c i feel like thats what i'm starting to do.
ive found that he's initating contact less , and it's been me calling him more often than not. hes not keeping his promises as much, and isnt really following up on dates. a few weeks ago he kept talking about wanting a gf, and scenarious of me and him in a relationship. i didnt really question where the conversation was going. i figured if he wanted to be in a relationship with me, he would've flat out asked, and i wouldnt have to read into anything. he hasnt brought up the topic since. ive tried just brushing off his behavior with him being busy at work, but i know deep down thats no excuse. anways, last night we were supposed to meet up at a friends party. i called him to see when he was coming but he didnt answer. so i texted him, about a hour later, he responds saying he just got my text and is at a friends house. then he says he thinks hes just gonna stay in the house. (now this was very odd, b/c he always answers his phone, or texts back within seconds.) so i told him i'd stop by his place when i leave. but after a while i realized i was very tipsy, so i asked if he could pick me up since he didnt live far from where i was, and he lives waaayyy close than me. another hour later, he responds about not understanding my question and how he has to work on a project at noon, and aren't i affraid of tickets blah blah blah. erplexed which really rubs me the wrong way, so now i'm moreso angry at the bs excuses. so then i'm like okay fine. i'll just come by in a few. so i call when i leave to let him know i'm on my way, but no answer.
30 minutes later, he calls back with the sleepy voice, saying he didnt think i was coming by after our conversation and that he went to sleep. (again very odd, b/c he usually stays up until 3-4am every since i've known him) so now i'm even more angry. and in my tipsy fog, i text him pretty much telling him off, and say it was nice knowing you. pretty childish i know. lol. and then i deleted his number. hahaha. well, dang after typing this out, i kind of already have my answer.. funny how that works. lol. but im kind of torn, b/c apart of me really does like him and didnt want it to end like that, but then apart of me is kind of tired of his bs. b/c i'm really starting to see a trend. i'd say this is the 3rd time we were supposed to meet up, but he decided to "stay home" not to mention a previous date where we missed the first half of a movie. we went to the movies, but he was running late, so we missed the movie we were supposed to watch, and decided on a different movie, so we grabbed a drink while waiting, but ended up missing that movie too. i figured why not just finish our food, and catch a later time 30 minutes later, but he had a bbq to go to, so we ended up missing an hour of the movie. i was really pissed, but he said he'd make it up, blah blah blah. but my friends are saying i'm reading too much into it. guess i just needed to vent. thanks for reading. lol again, sorry this was soo long.
ive found that he's initating contact less , and it's been me calling him more often than not. hes not keeping his promises as much, and isnt really following up on dates. a few weeks ago he kept talking about wanting a gf, and scenarious of me and him in a relationship. i didnt really question where the conversation was going. i figured if he wanted to be in a relationship with me, he would've flat out asked, and i wouldnt have to read into anything. he hasnt brought up the topic since. ive tried just brushing off his behavior with him being busy at work, but i know deep down thats no excuse. anways, last night we were supposed to meet up at a friends party. i called him to see when he was coming but he didnt answer. so i texted him, about a hour later, he responds saying he just got my text and is at a friends house. then he says he thinks hes just gonna stay in the house. (now this was very odd, b/c he always answers his phone, or texts back within seconds.) so i told him i'd stop by his place when i leave. but after a while i realized i was very tipsy, so i asked if he could pick me up since he didnt live far from where i was, and he lives waaayyy close than me. another hour later, he responds about not understanding my question and how he has to work on a project at noon, and aren't i affraid of tickets blah blah blah. erplexed which really rubs me the wrong way, so now i'm moreso angry at the bs excuses. so then i'm like okay fine. i'll just come by in a few. so i call when i leave to let him know i'm on my way, but no answer.
30 minutes later, he calls back with the sleepy voice, saying he didnt think i was coming by after our conversation and that he went to sleep. (again very odd, b/c he usually stays up until 3-4am every since i've known him) so now i'm even more angry. and in my tipsy fog, i text him pretty much telling him off, and say it was nice knowing you. pretty childish i know. lol. and then i deleted his number. hahaha. well, dang after typing this out, i kind of already have my answer.. funny how that works. lol. but im kind of torn, b/c apart of me really does like him and didnt want it to end like that, but then apart of me is kind of tired of his bs. b/c i'm really starting to see a trend. i'd say this is the 3rd time we were supposed to meet up, but he decided to "stay home" not to mention a previous date where we missed the first half of a movie. we went to the movies, but he was running late, so we missed the movie we were supposed to watch, and decided on a different movie, so we grabbed a drink while waiting, but ended up missing that movie too. i figured why not just finish our food, and catch a later time 30 minutes later, but he had a bbq to go to, so we ended up missing an hour of the movie. i was really pissed, but he said he'd make it up, blah blah blah. but my friends are saying i'm reading too much into it. guess i just needed to vent. thanks for reading. lol again, sorry this was soo long.