Soooo..........
I've been out on two dates with a guy. We were supposed to go out this week but I cancelled. Since we met he's been joking about going away for the weekend, now he's kind of pushing the issue.
I don't feel like I know him very well and I already turned down the invitation, but he called this morning and left a really long voicemail asking me again. He's also offered to make it just a day trip. The thing is we'd go in his car, to the midde of nowhere and even though I think he's a nice person, honestly, I just don't want to.
But, I don't want to hurt his feelings and I wouldn't mind seeing him again. So my question is, how should I handle it? I know I'm over-thinking it, but I've already turned him down a few times and cancelled a couple dates and I don't want to seem cold.
Also what would you do if you were in my situation?
I've been out on two dates with a guy. We were supposed to go out this week but I cancelled. Since we met he's been joking about going away for the weekend, now he's kind of pushing the issue.
I don't feel like I know him very well and I already turned down the invitation, but he called this morning and left a really long voicemail asking me again. He's also offered to make it just a day trip. The thing is we'd go in his car, to the midde of nowhere and even though I think he's a nice person, honestly, I just don't want to.
But, I don't want to hurt his feelings and I wouldn't mind seeing him again. So my question is, how should I handle it? I know I'm over-thinking it, but I've already turned him down a few times and cancelled a couple dates and I don't want to seem cold.
Also what would you do if you were in my situation?