Hardly ever post but I need help!.
My boyfriend and I share an almost 2 yr old son. Been together for almost 4 yrs... 1.5 yrs living together. We decided to take a break and he moved out. I pushed for saying it was ok to see other people as we were gonna treat this as a break up.
Fast forward 2.5 months later we are slowly trying to reconcile that he initiated. I was dating but nothing serious. However, he admitted that he was seeing someone and had sex with his good friend's bestie. His good friend is a girl but she was among a group of couples.
Problem is I know the girl as she has occasionally been around the group while we were together. I dont care for this group as I feel they are all immature but tolerate them as they are my partners friends.
I dont really care for his good friend who I find fake and phony. But she has helped with my baby shower, kids first bday party and other things.
He promised not to hang around the group as much and to leave if she is around. However, Im now not comfortable with his friendship with his good friend who is besties with this girl. I think he should cut her off as well. He maintains that his friend is a good friend and he can keep the two issues separate.
Im now putting the breaks on the reconciliation as I dont feel comfortable. I just dont know if im being reasonable as apparently the friend didnt hook these two up.
Thanks and sorry for the long post!
My boyfriend and I share an almost 2 yr old son. Been together for almost 4 yrs... 1.5 yrs living together. We decided to take a break and he moved out. I pushed for saying it was ok to see other people as we were gonna treat this as a break up.
Fast forward 2.5 months later we are slowly trying to reconcile that he initiated. I was dating but nothing serious. However, he admitted that he was seeing someone and had sex with his good friend's bestie. His good friend is a girl but she was among a group of couples.
Problem is I know the girl as she has occasionally been around the group while we were together. I dont care for this group as I feel they are all immature but tolerate them as they are my partners friends.
I dont really care for his good friend who I find fake and phony. But she has helped with my baby shower, kids first bday party and other things.
He promised not to hang around the group as much and to leave if she is around. However, Im now not comfortable with his friendship with his good friend who is besties with this girl. I think he should cut her off as well. He maintains that his friend is a good friend and he can keep the two issues separate.
Im now putting the breaks on the reconciliation as I dont feel comfortable. I just dont know if im being reasonable as apparently the friend didnt hook these two up.
Thanks and sorry for the long post!