MissJ
Well-Known Member
First day of orientation, I was wondering where I was going to sit, and this guy pulled out a chair for me to sit at his table. He was white. I noticed his voice was little different. I thought, "Well, maybe he's just country."
Anyway, he hung around me for most of orientation. Always spoke when he saw me. He'd do things like let me get on the bus before he did, otherwise I'd probably be standing up on the bus. Anyway, it got kind of annoying like, "Why is he being so nice?" Then later I thought, "That's what I want, right? A gentleman after having been with Wave Cap Guy who was anything but that."
Whenever I would see the guy outside of class, he'd be with a group of black people. Then I figured it out. He's the white guy who identifies with blacks. That explains the voice and his inviting me to sit beside him before we even met. Anyway, not that he's asked me out or that I'm interested, but given this type of scenario, would you date a guy with an identity crisis like this?
Do you think there's a difference between dating just a regular white guy and a white guy who thinks he's black?
Anyway, he hung around me for most of orientation. Always spoke when he saw me. He'd do things like let me get on the bus before he did, otherwise I'd probably be standing up on the bus. Anyway, it got kind of annoying like, "Why is he being so nice?" Then later I thought, "That's what I want, right? A gentleman after having been with Wave Cap Guy who was anything but that."
Whenever I would see the guy outside of class, he'd be with a group of black people. Then I figured it out. He's the white guy who identifies with blacks. That explains the voice and his inviting me to sit beside him before we even met. Anyway, not that he's asked me out or that I'm interested, but given this type of scenario, would you date a guy with an identity crisis like this?
Do you think there's a difference between dating just a regular white guy and a white guy who thinks he's black?