A little disturbed

SoSweet08

SoSweet08

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So last night I went over my boyfriend's house after riding around with him and getting some ice cream. We got back to the house and he started rubbing his sneakers against the floor as he was walking, to make a loud screeching noise. I asked him what he was doing and he said his mother is home and she has company so he was making the noise so that they know he is around.

It was weird for me because he usually just knocks on the door and tells him mom that I am here and so on. So he goes to the bathroom and I am inside of his room waiting on his return. I start hearing moans so I look around for his laptop since he has a history of playing porn on his laptop which is connected to these loud speakers. His laptop is off the speakers are off so at this point I'm a little confused. I then hear a spanking sound and more moans and soon realizes that his mom was having intercourse with her boyfriend.

I was extremly shocked and disgusted. I felt awkward afterwards and wanted to leave right away. I didn't tell him what I just heard but I wanted to. We ended up getting in an argument because I wasn't being affectionate enough or anything.

I might need to grow up a bit and just look at it as ...his mother was getting hers...but I can't.

I can't look her in the face and my mental is kind of messed up now lol...


Am I going a bit overboard? Has anyone here ever encountered this issue? Did you tell the guy? What did you do?


Eta
I know this is her house and she can do what she wants, I'm just disgusted that I had to witness this.
 
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No you're not overreacting. I probably would have left when I heard the moans.
 
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Whoa. :perplexed That's a really private moment and I don't blame you for being uncomfortable. :nono: Just out of curiousity
SoSweet08 said:
...I might need to grow up a bit and just look at it as ...his mother was getting hers...but I can't...
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why not? :look:
 
Bwahahaha!!

Oh, dang, that's rough.

I would have mentioned that I could hear his mom getting hers, and could we leave the house for a lil while, as parents poking is just - I'm still too young for alla that. :lachen:

There's no way I would have been able to get cuddly - the thought of moms having sex is not a warm-up routine for me.

:lachen:
 
Awkward. I had a similar situation, except it was one of my ex-boyfriend's house mates. we just turned the TV up to drown them out :nono:

I'd be uncomfortable, but hey, it is her house. If it was me, i would have had him turn on those speakers to something that wasn't porn (since you mentioned he has a history of putting porn on blast... who does that? :perplexed: lol) to drown them out, or I would have told him why I was uncomfortable, and suggested a place outside of his house to hang out.
 
He was screeching the floor because his mom probably gets it on all the time and he didn't want her to moan too loud knowing you were there. I would have felt uncomfortable too.
 
Mom was getting her's in her house. Shruggs.

How old is your boyfriend? How are you? I ask how old he is because if he is grown he needs to get out of his mama house and you nor him would have to hear her getting her groove on.
 
poookie said:
Awkward. I had a similar situation, except it was one of my ex-boyfriend's house mates. we just turned the TV up to drown them out :nono:

I'd be uncomfortable, but hey, it is her house. If it was me, i would have had him turn on those speakers to something that wasn't porn (since you mentioned he has a history of putting porn on blast... who does that? :perplexed: lol) to drown them out, or I would have told him why I was uncomfortable, and suggested a place outside of his house to hang out.
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I was wondering if I was the only who noticed this. I would think most people listen to porn turned down. (Esp this dude since he lives at home with his mama.)
 
pookaloo83 said:
He was screeching the floor because his mom probably gets it on all the time and he didn't want her to moan too loud knowing you were there. I would have felt uncomfortable too.
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LOL Op, this is funny, weird and gross at the same time. Ole Boy KNEW what was up with his mama, they got a code. LOL
 
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My ex-fiancee's mother used to watch porn and smoke blunts in the living room. She was all up in our coloring making comments, every time the door was closed and we weren't doing anything but trying to shut them out. I left him as a result because I grew severely afraid that my poor future children would pick up her habits. This is why he is my ex-fiancee and not my husband.

I am sure your man's mom is not as bad but tell him how you feel as politely as you can, since it is mother and all. I am sorry, but any time I hear sneakers screeching I will think of your thread. :look: :lachen:
 
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MD_Lady said:
Whoa. :perplexed That's a really private moment and I don't blame you for being uncomfortable. :nono: Just out of curiousity why not? :look:
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Lol I meant that I couldn't get over it since its just awkward knowing what his mom is doing even though its normal and life..I guess. And I always wondered why his mom have male guests in her room and not the living room or kitchen. So ah yea...everything started connecting after this. I want to talk to him about the situation.
JustKiya said:
Bwahahaha!!

Oh, dang, that's rough.

I would have mentioned that I could hear his mom getting hers, and could we leave the house for a lil while, as parents poking is just - I'm still too young for alla that. :lachen:

There's no way I would have been able to get cuddly - the thought of moms having sex is not a warm-up routine for me.

:lachen:
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Lol yea I know...I should of left right away. I left about 10 mins. after. He kept asking me what was up but I couldn't talk about it at the time. If it was his father and his mother....the situation would have been a tad bit different lol..what did I get myself into. Smh

The guy I'm with now is very quick to react so I didn't know if he was going to react wrong or something.
 
:lachen::lachen: Sorry but this takes me back.

I think my pops was :ohwell: also when I busted up in the house early from work (right b4 I left for college). Man was it STANKIN (ya'll know how that sex smell lingers) up in that section of the house :lachen: plus he came running out trying to act like everything was normal. :lachen:

Needless to say, I grabbed my shoes and left for the day.
 
I can imagine that would dry you right on up if you were interested in doing "something." But mom is within her rights..it's just awkward for you all.

I would have said something about to him about it..had a little laugh, turn on some music and chilled.
 
Tee said:
Mom was getting her's in her house. Shruggs.

How old is your boyfriend? How are you? I ask how old he is because if he is grown he needs to get out of his mama house and you nor him would have to hear her getting her groove on.
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He's 21 and I'm 22.
 
brownelovely said:
:lachen::lachen: Sorry but this takes me back.

I think my pops was :ohwell: also when I busted up in the house early from work (right b4 I left for college). Man was it STANKIN (ya'll know how that sex smell lingers) up in that section of the house :lachen: plus he came running out trying to act like everything was normal. :lachen:

Needless to say, I grabbed my shoes and left for the day.
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Your story made me:lachen::lachen::lachen:.
 
I don't think you were over re-acting however if that is his mother's house you shouldn't expect her not to do anything other that what she want to in her house!

It sound like you left somethings out between you and your boyfriend, but anyway it seem that you have not gotten to know him good enough to know his mind and expectations of you, I can understand you being in his mother's house (if it is hers) and not wanting to do anything however those things should have been discussed before yall went to the house.
 
We went to high school together and later reconnected. I know him well but I'm not too mentally or physically attached to him anymore due to a lot of arguments we had lately. So the argument that started had something to do with that and me already being distant.
 
Lol! I'm sorry this is funny. LOL she was getting it cracking. But no really if you are ever in an awkward situation like this again explain it to him and get the heck out of there....... I wouldn't have done anything with him either. And I wouldn't apologize about it.
 
Yea I need to learn how to speak up a little bit more.

Thanks everyone for replying and giving your point of view. I just needed this get this situation off my chest. I feel better about it now lol.
 
Wow!
Booty smackin' and all huh?
I ain't mad at her, though.


I would have told him and then left.
 
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