Really?
Sis you don't have to DIE for a defined curl pattern -- just do a twist-out and call it day!
There is nothing wrong w/ wanting a curly/coily style ... that is what braid-outs, twist-outs, bantu knot-outs coil-outs, straw sets, etc are for ... you can achieve all the definition you want and b/c your hair is 4B textured, the look will last & last!
SHE is trying to do all the things the 3abc girls are doing and
clearly resenting her own texture for not revealing clumped curls from a simple wash n go (listen to what she says in the vid) so she goes through this long shingling ritual ...Most 4Bs w/ dense hair do not see the need for going through all of that to clump our tiny coils ... we know that a simple wash n go + some gel will not produce clumped coils so we don't bother to go about it that way.... but to each her own
How does stating the obvious (4B coils do not
naturally form a clumped/defined look) make one feel horrible about 4B hair? How is this prejudiced? I actually have 4B hair so I know what it can & cannot do ... Just b/c the coils do not clump does not make my texture less fabulous than another ....
Why is curl/coil definition put on such a high pedestal? Why will sooo many 4Bs DIE for it?
erplexed
By the way ... I/WE are more upset with her
ATTITUDE about her own hair than the style/technique/results ... it's very cute on her