song_of_serenity
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Total sarcasm on my part in the title. :/
So I had to find this lady due to a natural acquaintance of mine (one of those soul sistah, mother earthy, not so fond of white people, all black people who get relaxers are devil mind infested types who's soon to not even be that) and saw the lady put up a new video.
Is having a lil curl THAT important that you have to shlack your hair with gel and brush for 5 minutes and then take about THREE to FOUR HOURS just for some curl definition??
REALLY?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0NU8gpBK4c
It's like...that's the only thing she dedicates her videos to.
DON'T GET ME WRONG.
It's not even the fact that she does this (heck, I rake some gel through my hair sometimes) and takes so long on it (I'm still floored, five hours?) It's the way she constantly speaks disdainfully of her own texture in all her videos that's just kind of sad. Like in one video "I went from dull, kinky, nappy bushy, cottony hair to to these gorgeous, spirally, shiny curls" and "There's something you can do with this type of hair to get these pretty curls. You can get definition, thank God!"
I know we all want to switch things up and all. And I know a few natural folk are quick to call relaxed heads "SELF HATERS" because they wear their hair straight. But unless you see someone with relaxed hair take on the "Oooh, my hair was so ugly and nappy, but ooh wee, look how lush and soft and bouncy, I got that white girl flow nah!" mindset, it's just a way to wear their hair. And you have just as many "self hating" naturals as people claim relaxed people can be.
Oh, and said acquaintance said of the lady "Well, at least she still loves curly hair. Black folks can have curly hair. But straight hair? No, something is just wrong *cue rant on brainwashing*" She doesn't even see that not embracing what you have, even as a natural is just as bad as running to get a relaxer at the sign of one kink just because it's "kinky, bushy and just nappy"
I digress. :/
So I had to find this lady due to a natural acquaintance of mine (one of those soul sistah, mother earthy, not so fond of white people, all black people who get relaxers are devil mind infested types who's soon to not even be that) and saw the lady put up a new video.
Is having a lil curl THAT important that you have to shlack your hair with gel and brush for 5 minutes and then take about THREE to FOUR HOURS just for some curl definition??
REALLY?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0NU8gpBK4c
It's like...that's the only thing she dedicates her videos to.
DON'T GET ME WRONG.
It's not even the fact that she does this (heck, I rake some gel through my hair sometimes) and takes so long on it (I'm still floored, five hours?) It's the way she constantly speaks disdainfully of her own texture in all her videos that's just kind of sad. Like in one video "I went from dull, kinky, nappy bushy, cottony hair to to these gorgeous, spirally, shiny curls" and "There's something you can do with this type of hair to get these pretty curls. You can get definition, thank God!"
I know we all want to switch things up and all. And I know a few natural folk are quick to call relaxed heads "SELF HATERS" because they wear their hair straight. But unless you see someone with relaxed hair take on the "Oooh, my hair was so ugly and nappy, but ooh wee, look how lush and soft and bouncy, I got that white girl flow nah!" mindset, it's just a way to wear their hair. And you have just as many "self hating" naturals as people claim relaxed people can be.
Oh, and said acquaintance said of the lady "Well, at least she still loves curly hair. Black folks can have curly hair. But straight hair? No, something is just wrong *cue rant on brainwashing*" She doesn't even see that not embracing what you have, even as a natural is just as bad as running to get a relaxer at the sign of one kink just because it's "kinky, bushy and just nappy"
I digress. :/