2014 Relaxed Hair Buddy Thread

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@KiWiStyle
@Cattypus1
@xu93texas
@shortdub78
@EnExitStageLeft
@SunySydeofLyfe
@lamaria211
@soonergirl
@317537
@nappytherapy
@kukaberry
@Altruisticoam

I am about to go in!!! I will be 12 weeks tomorrow but I am on a mission to do better and it all starts with some fresh roots! The baby is napping until 4 so I hope I can get all done or close before she starts calling!!! Pictures later!

I am so happy with my results but I don't have anyone to take a picture!!! I tried to do the selfie but I sucked at it! I didn't get much growth and need a trim even though my ends are uneven they are not splitting....I may just hold on...lol...such a shame, I am not a blunt cut lover so I like the 'layered' look lol....or I like to hold on to all my growth...ends make inches!!! My ends are just past my brastrap can you say happy!!! I want full BSL and MBL this year. My mission just got serious!!! My sister (natural and struggling) are doing a accountability challenge starting tomorrow. Hope this puts me closer to my goals!! I will add my awful selfie in a few.
 
@EnExitStage!eft xu93texas KiWiStyle yoli184 Cattypus1, shortdub78, soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe lamaria211 317537 nappytherapy kukaberry It's official,.. I'm a self relaxer!! I'm under the dryer now with my deep conditioner. I think I'll roller set my hair when I finish. Pics to come. It was way easier than I imagined. I went with a method I saw on YouTube involving pre-parting and twisting your hair http://youtu.be/FAman42iJiU

That is such a good idea. I always self relax but I never thought of that. It would save time and allow for a more even app. I use a mild relaxer but I still worry about over processing.
 
You took a really nice pic...and your hair is really long and full. I needed your inspiration because my hair seems to be going nowhere, FAST!

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Thank you! I am getting inspired to do better because I have never had hair past my shoulders even then I thought I was doing something. This new head of hair is making me a believer that with patience and the right technique, products and my LHCF sistas I can get to WSL! We are going to do this thing together!

I cant be of much help but I will try what are you struggling with?

My sister and I are doing a month of consistency, I don't have a set regimen but to help her be more accountable as she calls it I am willing to stick to one for a month, I have a feeling that when I do I will benefit too! Come on and do it with us!

I will post mine later on today, I need to write it down so I can see it.
 
@EnExitStage!eft xu93texas KiWiStyle yoli184 Cattypus1, shortdub78, soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe lamaria211 317537 nappytherapy kukaberry

It's official,.. I'm a self relaxer!!

I'm under the dryer now with my deep conditioner. I think I'll roller set my hair when I finish.

Pics to come. It was way easier than I imagined. I went with a method I saw on YouTube involving pre-parting and twisting your hair

http://youtu.be/FAman42iJiU

Here are the results. All and all I'm happy. I retained my length and my right side continues to grow and prosper. However I need a serious trim which I hope will promote more growth. I'll be taking the plunge either today or tomorrow and cut off 1-2 inches :-(

Needless to say ill be doing the inversion challenge starting tomorrow to try and get an inch back.
 

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Here are the results. All and all I'm happy. I retained my length and my right side continues to grow and prosper. However I need a serious trim which I hope will promote more growth. I'll be taking the plunge either today or tomorrow and cut off 1-2 inches :-(

Needless to say ill be doing the inversion challenge starting tomorrow to try and get an inch back.

You are a beauty! Your hair looks nice! !
 
I just relaxed Saturday. I am a former self relaxer. It was my second time at the stylist. He used Mizani butter blends. I'm torn cause he cut off half of my hair! :-(. But I always burn myself and I haven't these last two times. It's really hard to for me to relax when I have such a big head and so much hair. (Or used to have so much hair...I know it'll grow back). I was 14 weeks. I used to go 20 ish weeks but I wind up flat ironing the roots every week after about 8 weeks. Anyway I'm never letting him chop in my hair like this again. I'll prob relax again at 12 weeks.

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I just relaxed Saturday. I am a former self relaxer. It was my second time at the stylist. He used Mizani butter blends. I'm torn cause he cut off half of my hair! :-(. But I always burn myself and I haven't these last two times. It's really hard to for me to relax when I have such a big head and so much hair. (Or used to have so much hair...I know it'll grow back). I was 14 weeks. I used to go 20 ish weeks but I wind up flat ironing the roots every week after about 8 weeks. Anyway I'm never letting him chop in my hair like this again. I'll prob relax again at 12 weeks.

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Another amazing head of hair. Just beautiful! !
 
Here are the results. All and all I'm happy. I retained my length and my right side continues to grow and prosper. However I need a serious trim which I hope will promote more growth. I'll be taking the plunge either today or tomorrow and cut off 1-2 inches :-( Needless to say ill be doing the inversion challenge starting tomorrow to try and get an inch back.

Very nice!! You're not alone, I'll be trimming my hair again in March. It's a necessary evil.

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I just relaxed Saturday. I am a former self relaxer. It was my second time at the stylist. He used Mizani butter blends. I'm torn cause he cut off half of my hair! :-(. But I always burn myself and I haven't these last two times. It's really hard to for me to relax when I have such a big head and so much hair. (Or used to have so much hair...I know it'll grow back). I was 14 weeks. I used to go 20 ish weeks but I wind up flat ironing the roots every week after about 8 weeks. Anyway I'm never letting him chop in my hair like this again. I'll prob relax again at 12 weeks. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

Gorgeous hair 317537!! I had to go back to see if you are my buddy, lol. We've grown so much I get lost at times...Anyhoo, I'm glad I have another hair inspiration in our group! Did I miss your stats up thread somewhere, I want to know more?

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I just relaxed Saturday. I am a former self relaxer. It was my second time at the stylist. He used Mizani butter blends. I'm torn cause he cut off half of my hair! :-(. But I always burn myself and I haven't these last two times. It's really hard to for me to relax when I have such a big head and so much hair. (Or used to have so much hair...I know it'll grow back). I was 14 weeks. I used to go 20 ish weeks but I wind up flat ironing the roots every week after about 8 weeks. Anyway I'm never letting him chop in my hair like this again. I'll prob relax again at 12 weeks. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
That hair is GAUJUS!
 
I just relaxed Saturday. I am a former self relaxer. It was my second time at the stylist. He used Mizani butter blends. I'm torn cause he cut off half of my hair! :-(. But I always burn myself and I haven't these last two times. It's really hard to for me to relax when I have such a big head and so much hair. (Or used to have so much hair...I know it'll grow back). I was 14 weeks. I used to go 20 ish weeks but I wind up flat ironing the roots every week after about 8 weeks. Anyway I'm never letting him chop in my hair like this again. I'll prob relax again at 12 weeks.

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So pretty :-)
 
Thx everyone. I usually lurk... I'm a keep it simple person. I wash every 5-7d deep condition in the shower with aphogee or biolage ultra hydrating balm. Then I towel dry apply a mix of serum cream and oil ( usually frizz ease, davines relaxing fluid, and grape seed oil) rough blowdry and put in two Bantu knots like Princess Leia. This straightens out frizz. In the morning I put in hot rollers. I use heat once a week-ish and I only use a flatiron on NG. I don't use a curling iron just hot rollers. I sleep on a satin pillowcase. I used to wrap but I noticed breakage at my hairline so I stopped. I also used to flat iron but I started breaking so I stopped. I use henna and indigo too.

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KiWiStyle, you do have a busy hair weekend! Have fun!

We're home in New Orleans this weekend visiting family. I washed and DC before we left. When I get back Monday I plan to clarify and do a protein treatment.
 
PrettyinPink001 sunnieb, Luprisi, baddison, DominicanBrazilian82, Nix08, Cherry89, Jobwright, baddison

One thing I learned from this last stretch is that it can be done. Remember, I relaxed because I was being bad hair lazy, but the fatigue was killing my head. I am happy though that I am seeing the thickness and health I have been feening for when I started my journey. Texlaxing has slow results, but you know what? Im jealous of myself. I looked in the mirror like "What? Thats Me? Oh S***!" And I want to thank divachyk for her post about not needing a mid-protein step. I used some protein this relaxer when I needed it in certain areas, but the linange is so mild that I really didn't need to bother with protein.
 
PrettyinPink001 sunnieb, Luprisi, baddison, DominicanBrazilian82, Nix08, Cherry89, Jobwright, baddison One thing I learned from this last stretch is that it can be done. Remember, I relaxed because I was being bad hair lazy, but the fatigue was killing my head. I am happy though that I am seeing the thickness and health I have been feening for when I started my journey. Texlaxing has slow results, but you know what? Im jealous of myself. I looked in the mirror like "What? Thats Me? Oh S***!" And I want to thank divachyk for her post about not needing a mid-protein step. I used some protein this relaxer when I needed it in certain areas, but the linange is so mild that I really didn't need to bother with protein.

i really want to try out linange. hope i will find it throughout my weekend in london next week.
i have fine hair and i hope it will do me good.

is it no lye or lye? i had my relaxer with no lye. i dont know if changing is a problem
 
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Sooooooooo, I cut my hair today :grin: - Took 5 inches off!!!

Im so happy, my ends have been looking dastardly and I wanted to do something new to my hair, I felt like it was boring, so here are the results :grin:

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i really want to try out linange. hope i will find it throughout my weekend in london next week. i have fine hair and i hope it will do me good. is it no lye or lye? i had my relaxer with no lye. i dont know if changing is a problem

It's lye. It shouldn't be a problem. I switched with no problem.

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KiWiStyle, you do have a busy hair weekend! Have fun! We're home in New Orleans this weekend visiting family. I washed and DC before we left. When I get back Monday I plan to clarify and do a protein treatment.

I didn't get the chance to shampoo today, mommy and wife got the best of my day, ugh! It's looking like henna is going to happen next week.

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