2013 Relaxed Hair Buddy Thread

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Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe

Hey ladies! I did my first post relaxer wash yesterday and it went very well. I didn't pre-poo because it was very impromptu, my dad had an out patient surgery so I decided to come home and shampoo while I waited.

I washed with my Nairobi Pamperlizer (neutralizer) shampoo and followed that with Paul Mitchell Awapuhi wild ginger moisturizing shampoo. I then steam DC for about 30 minutes with my usual mix of:
Nairobi Humecta-Sil
QB Olive & Honey Hydrating Balm
EVOO
Sesame seed oil
ROUX PC conditioner
AVJ.
LORD HAVE MERCY!! I cannot get enough of this power mix! After that I applied kimmytube leave-in conditioner and air dried using the scarf method. My hair felt unbelievable afterwards even without M&S. I am thoroughly texlaxed at my nape and front/middle hairline the rest could use less processing. My air dried pony is much thicker, the diameter feels nice finally!! I just now moisturized and sealed using the LOC method with QB BRBC & my ceramide oil mix...my hair is still full even with product in it!! Because I've been using Roux PC conditioner I am extremely low porosity now so I whole head baggied to be sure the moisture sinks all the way into my strands.

BTW, my chemical burn and scalp is healed for the most part. I don't know if I lost any hair but I'm not going to look to find out. I'm having a good hair moment and I ain't going to ruin it. Thanks again to ALL who offered suggestions :-).

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You just make the PJ in me start jonesin (dating myself). I going to get some AVJ and that's it! (Fingers crossed)
 
My friends boyfriend lied about getting the tickets to RKelly and i refuse to stand up so no concert for us. And no hair treatment for me....I'm going to do better. Prepoo treatment tonight long steam tomorrow. Yep

Suny
 
My friends boyfriend lied about getting the tickets to RKelly and i refuse to stand up so no concert for us. And no hair treatment for me....I'm going to do better. Prepoo treatment tonight long steam tomorrow. Yep

Suny

I would be so frickin' pissed. Your friends boyfriend would have been called everything but his name that day. YOU JUST DON'T PLAY ABOUT R.KELLY TICKETS! :nono: and a :fishslap: to him
 
I would be so frickin' pissed. Your friends boyfriend would have been called everything but his name that day. YOU JUST DON'T PLAY ABOUT R.KELLY TICKETS! :nono: and a :fishslap: to him

Lady...pissed is the nice of how i feel. He insisted on getting a vip table 2 weeks ago. Called her Thursday and tells this bs story about the lady telling him if your sitting at a RKelly concert then your not having fun. I was like bs there is no way she tried to talk him out of getting a 200 dollar table to 25 dollar tickets. I had my white ready!!! His *** waited til the last minute or decided he wasn't that invested (1 month in)....i don't know but i told her i never want to meet him. Be a man of your word or tell the truth..that simple

Suny
 
Lady...pissed is the nice of how i feel. He insisted on getting a vip table 2 weeks ago. Called her Thursday and tells this bs story about the lady telling him if your sitting at a RKelly concert then your not having fun. I was like bs there is no way she tried to talk him out of getting a 200 dollar table to 25 dollar tickets. I had my white ready!!! His *** waited til the last minute or decided he wasn't that invested (1 month in)....i don't know but i told her i never want to meet him. Be a man of your word or tell the truth..that simple

Suny

:thud: Dude was tryna' impress but his dolla' just wouldn't stretch that far :lachen:.
 
:thud: Dude was tryna' impress but his dolla' just wouldn't stretch that far :lachen:.

He came back with more redemption...offered to buy us all 25 dollar tickets. I didn't want to stand. I'll wait for him when he comes to the Fox.

On another note, i did a prepoo last night with emergencia mixed with oils, sat under the dryer. My eyes didn't burn but one spot on the top of my head did....i despise the dryer. Airdried and my hair is nice and fluffy. May do a quick cowash later so i can add a leave in.

Suny
 
GrowAHead
Hairroots

Hi buddies - I am 9 days away from my relaxer. I can't wait but my hair is really doing well. Next time I think I will stretch to 16 weeks instead of 13. This weekend is hardcore protein to prepare for the big day. How are you doing? When will you relax?

I'm still on track for Saturday 8/24. Can't wait! My hair has been going ham lately. That'll be 14 weeks for me. Hot tangled mess!!
Rozlewis
 
divachyk
Nix08 Cherry89 baddison Luprisi
DominicanBrazilian82
sunnieb

Hey buddies!

I'm doing good with my stretch so far but I do miss wearing my hair down. I shampooed today and deep conditioned with kenra moisturizing conditioner and this time I added honey, I roller set and I'm currently air drying. It's been almost 7 hours since I roller set so I'm about to get under the dryer for about 10 minutes to make sure my hair is fully dry. This morning I tested the texturizer that ill be using on some shedded hair and I think I'll love the results! I can't wait to try it. How is everyone doing? Anyone relaxing this week?
Oh, I ordered UBH conditioner and moisturizer by Cathy Howse and ill be trying that this week!
 
Personally (since I'm such a stickler...) I have mapped out my year (Lord willing...) to relax using this schedule

1st Relaxer (17weeks after Dec 22nd) = April 20th
2nd Relaxer (18weesk after April 27th) = August 24th
3rd Relaxer (17weeks after Aug. 24th) = December 21st

Holla back..!!:grin::grin::grin:

Luprisi, divachyk,
Nix08, Cherry89,
DominicanBrazilian82,
sunnieb


OK.....buddies...:sad::sad:, sadly, I need to stick to my original relaxer schedule for 2013. I thought I could modify the schedule to stretch longer with some of you, but circumstances prevent it. I am traveling extensively all the way to mid-September. So, I'll be relaxing on the 24th of August, according to my original plan....and will relax again 17weeks after that to complete my 3 relaxers for the 2013 year. Will come back to post progress pics as soon as I can. GO! - GO! - GO! - team 17/18 weeks!!!:grin::grin:
 
My friends boyfriend lied about getting the tickets to RKelly and i refuse to stand up so no concert for us. And no hair treatment for me....I'm going to do better. Prepoo treatment tonight long steam tomorrow. Yep

Suny

Sorry bout kelly... hows you hair? how many weeks post are you now, my ng is actin a fool @ 13 weeks
 
baddison, I will be ending my stretch soon. I can't deal with this mess. Not even gonna lie.

SunySydeofLyfe, sorry you can't go. DH and I were going until we found out it's all white. I'm not in the mood to be being all white for the event and never really where it again. I don't do white typically because it dirties too quickly. Or another way to say it, I'm too careless.
 
Luprisi, divachyk,
Nix08, Cherry89,
DominicanBrazilian82,
sunnieb


OK.....buddies...:sad::sad:, sadly, I need to stick to my original relaxer schedule for 2013. I thought I could modify the schedule to stretch longer with some of you, but circumstances prevent it. I am traveling extensively all the way to mid-September. So, I'll be relaxing on the 24th of August, according to my original plan....and will relax again 17weeks after that to complete my 3 relaxers for the 2013 year. Will come back to post progress pics as soon as I can. GO! - GO! - GO! - team 17/18 weeks!!!:grin::grin:

I think I'll be doing the same, ill have a lot of family coming over at the end of the year so if I relax at the end of this month, the timing will be perfect fo the holidays!
 
Sorry bout kelly... hows you hair? how many weeks post are you now, my ng is actin a fool @ 13 weeks

I tu about 3 weeks ago at 10 weeks my ng was acting up too. I had an event and wanted to be super cute. You thinking about getting an early tu? I realize 12 weeks will be my max

Suny
 
baddison, I will be ending my stretch soon. I can't deal with this mess. Not even gonna lie.

SunySydeofLyfe, sorry you can't go. DH and I were going until we found out it's all white. I'm not in the mood to be being all white for the event and never really where it again. I don't do white typically because it dirties too quickly. Or another way to say it, I'm too careless.

I was so disappointed and then people are posting pictures makes me sadder. I understand about the white it was hard finding some and i too would have been on a please dirt and makeup stay away. We are taking the stuff back and going to dinner this weekend

Suny
 
@Luprisi, @divachyk,
@Nix08, @Cherry89,
@DominicanBrazilian82,
@sunnieb


OK.....buddies...:sad::sad:, sadly, I need to stick to my original relaxer schedule for 2013. I thought I could modify the schedule to stretch longer with some of you, but circumstances prevent it. I am traveling extensively all the way to mid-September. So, I'll be relaxing on the 24th of August, according to my original plan....and will relax again 17weeks after that to complete my 3 relaxers for the 2013 year. Will come back to post progress pics as soon as I can. GO! - GO! - GO! - team 17/18 weeks!!!:grin::grin:

You know baddison, because I want a fresh relaxer near the end of the year AND I've been thinking that 16 weeks is sufficient a stretch I too may stick to relaxing early to mid September BUT then relax again at the end of the year which would be about 16 weeks post. I now know that I can stretch and do so easily, I just feel like I enjoy my hair more outside of the deep stretch. I am ok with a relaxer every 4 months for a total of about 3 relaxers a year:yep:
 
divachyk
Nix08 Cherry89 baddison Luprisi
sunnieb

Hey Y'ALL! So... I will be 19 weeks post this Saturday and you know what that means... Time to 2 Step (SunySydeofLyfe - No pun intended :grin:). I will relax next weekend at 20 weeks post!!! Right on schedule.

Quick question: Anyone ever do a hard protein and henna in the same day? If so, what was your process?

Normally, I do my henna the week BEFORE the relaxer, and the intense protein treatment the week AFTER the relaxer. This way, I know the hair is protected from both ends...:grin:
 
divachyk
Nix08 Cherry89 baddison Luprisi
sunnieb

Hey Y'ALL! So... I will be 19 weeks post this Saturday and you know what that means... Time to 2 Step (SunySydeofLyfe - No pun intended :grin:). I will relax next weekend at 20 weeks post!!! Right on schedule.

Quick question: Anyone ever do a hard protein and henna in the same day? If so, what was your process?

I will be doing my two step protein Tx on Monday and hopefully get relaxed the following Friday. Ive never done the 2 step one so im a bit anxious. Also, are you doing a mid step protein before neutrizing? I'm afraid it might be too much protein for me.
 
Hey Buddies xu93texas KiWiStyle shortdub78 yoli184 Altruisticoam EnExitStageLeft soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe
In honor of my HHJ I bought a stand bonnet dryer today...I am so frustrated with my hair right now...I did a nice trim a couple of days ago and flat ironed for the first time in forever and been trying to wear a Bantu knot out and looking like the wicked witch by the end of the day...gonna try roller setting and see if that will keep me rom having the urge to shave my dang head! Mini rant!

How do u like your dryer? Did the roller set work? Sorry responding so late. I have been going through some things! Lol my edges are starting to fill back in. I will post some pics when I can get on my laptop. For those of us that havent relaxed yet how many weeks post are u? I haven't been able to go this long in such a long time.I give credit to Nairobi relaxer and not being under processed.
 
I will be doing my two step protein Tx on Monday and hopefully get relaxed the following Friday. Ive never done the 2 step one so im a bit anxious. Also, are you doing a mid step protein before neutrizing? I'm afraid it might be too much protein for me.

Luprisi I always 2 Step and mid-step. My hair loves protein, so it's not too much for me. I also use Aphogee for both. 2 Step for the hardcore, 2 min for the mid-step.
 
How do u like your dryer? Did the roller set work? Sorry responding so late. I have been going through some things! Lol my edges are starting to fill back in. I will post some pics when I can get on my laptop. For those of us that havent relaxed yet how many weeks post are u? I haven't been able to go this long in such a long time.I give credit to Nairobi relaxer and not being under processed.

I love the dryer...I just hate sitting underneath it...LOL. Sorry you've been going through some things, I hope things are getting better. Nice work on the edges, I know that was a pain. I have an edge problem too--evil gray hair! My first stab at a roller set in 5 or 6 years was respectable but nothing picture worthy. How many weeks post are you?
 
I love the dryer...I just hate sitting underneath it...LOL. Sorry you've been going through some things, I hope things are getting better. Nice work on the edges, I know that was a pain. I have an edge problem too--evil gray hair! My first stab at a roller set in 5 or 6 years was respectable but nothing picture worthy. How many weeks post are you?

Thanks for the edge support! Lol I will be 11 weeks post. I hate sitting with my hands under the dryer. I get antsy and just walk out! I take my own polish with me for smudges. Anyway, I've had issue after issue. I got bit in the eye by a spider, minor surgical procedure, etc. Just can't get right! Lol I just washed my hair today. I didn't get to put the color in.
 
Thanks for the edge support! Lol I will be 11 weeks post. I hate sitting with my hands under the dryer. I get antsy and just walk out! I take my own polish with me for smudges. Anyway, I've had issue after issue. I got bit in the eye by a spider, minor surgical procedure, etc. Just can't get right! Lol I just washed my hair today. I didn't get to put the color in.

Bit in the EYE! What in the world!!!
 
Mande30 mschristine

How are my buddies doing? I've been out of the loop for the past month. I'm 8 weeks post and my hair is doing well. I plan to get a touch up next Wednesday at 9 weeks post. I will visit the salon No more self relaxing for me.
 
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