vkb247
Well-Known Member
at my 30th birthday party
To tell you the truth I am not heartbroken about it because I was the one who ended things several months ago...because he went MIA for a couple of months. Over the last ten years he has done countless awful things to me and I have left him alone for years, fell in love with other people, but he is the one who I keep going back to. The one who won't leave me alone, acting like he can't live without me and I am the best he ever had. I have given him a million chances he didn't deserve.
Through it all we have always been great friends, we talk about everything, and what we had was special. Or I thought it was and that is what is killing me. He just threw it away and in the most disrespectful awful way possible.
I laughed when it happened. Because I was not surprised, because I was, because I was drunk, because he is an a** and I am tired of caring. I kicked him out because he upset my friend so badly. I let her put the f's into him that I wasn't willing to give him myself and she gave them too him royaly!
He tried some half hearted apology/excuse via text message (he knows I wouldn't anser his calls) and actually tried to blame my friend for ruining my night because she didn't wait until the next day.
My friends must think I am a fool because they think that I will go back to him. But they don't realize that thinks were almost non-existent between us before this happened plus it is one thing to make a fool of me and a total other to make a fool of me with and in front of my friend.
I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone about it though I am mentioning it to my mother and other friends because he is likely to use them to try to get in contact with me. So I just really needed to vent and wouldn't mind some opinions about how to deal with him if he continues to try to contact me and how I can get him out of my spirit so I can leave him alone for good.
To tell you the truth I am not heartbroken about it because I was the one who ended things several months ago...because he went MIA for a couple of months. Over the last ten years he has done countless awful things to me and I have left him alone for years, fell in love with other people, but he is the one who I keep going back to. The one who won't leave me alone, acting like he can't live without me and I am the best he ever had. I have given him a million chances he didn't deserve.
Through it all we have always been great friends, we talk about everything, and what we had was special. Or I thought it was and that is what is killing me. He just threw it away and in the most disrespectful awful way possible.
I laughed when it happened. Because I was not surprised, because I was, because I was drunk, because he is an a** and I am tired of caring. I kicked him out because he upset my friend so badly. I let her put the f's into him that I wasn't willing to give him myself and she gave them too him royaly!
He tried some half hearted apology/excuse via text message (he knows I wouldn't anser his calls) and actually tried to blame my friend for ruining my night because she didn't wait until the next day.
My friends must think I am a fool because they think that I will go back to him. But they don't realize that thinks were almost non-existent between us before this happened plus it is one thing to make a fool of me and a total other to make a fool of me with and in front of my friend.
I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone about it though I am mentioning it to my mother and other friends because he is likely to use them to try to get in contact with me. So I just really needed to vent and wouldn't mind some opinions about how to deal with him if he continues to try to contact me and how I can get him out of my spirit so I can leave him alone for good.