HoneyDew
Well-Known Member
It is for me because of thickness and also i know naturals that have hair that is "trained" and it looks like that. Honestly where i currently live and in other places i have rarely in real life meet a black female that relaxes and has both healthy and thick real hair. I know its lhcf, but irl i dont' see it nearly as often as say natural who presses every two weeks.
That makes me think pf an experience my cousin had recently. She started going to a new stylist and he told her that whoever was relaxing her hair was relaxing the life out of it. He said no good stylist does that anymore, that is old school relaxing.

I thought that was funny.
I do see plenty of ladies in my area with thicker relaxed hair though.
On two different occasions I have had people tell me they thought I was natural and pressed. Nope - relaxed like the masses, but my hair is still thick (albeit still short
