S.O. RUINING REGIMEN!!!

[SouthernTease]

Do you find it hard to keep up your regimen
when you have a SO because you want to be cute for him?

 

[soonergirl]

Yes !!!! My dh is so tired of me co washing and putting it up in a octopus clip!!! I get him involved though.. I make him measure my hair and tell him my goals... So, that kinda keeps him from complaining.... But he still likes when I wear it down!!!

 

[gone_fishing]

Well, I don't live with my fiance but I know I have to deep condition on Saturday morning and Wendesday nights.

He'd complain about that when he was here so I fixed that real quick. He's no longer allowed over at those times.

I don't let him interfere with my hair in any way. Men may come and go but hair is forever.

 

[MariposaSexyGirl]

Yeah dh is always complaining about me wearing my hair in a bun. He doesn't consider it done if it's like that. He likes my hair and he likes me to wear it down. So I try to wear it straight on the weekends now. But not this weekend I have absolutely to much newgrowth.

 

[poookie]

Well, I don't live with my fiance but I know I have to deep condition on Saturday morning and Wendesday nights.

He'd complain about that when he was here so I fixed that real quick. He's no longer allowed over at those times.

I don't let him interfere with my hair in any way. Men may come and go but hair is forever.

that's the truth right there!!!
that's why he's not allowed to complain when i'm in pre-poo mode

 

[Traycee]

My DH really doesn't mind the buns as long as I take it down when he wants some

 

[Sunshine0801]

My SO doesn't complain at all. He understands that I'm on a mission to have healthy and long hair, but he definitely showers me with compliments when I actually do something cute to it.

 

[MZMATTHEWS]

My SO complains about my buns when we go out, so when I get a touch-up I'll plan a special evening out. I must admit I'm tired of the bun myself but I'm on a mission. APL here I come

 

[JustKiya]

Nah, DH appreciates my sexy no matter how my hair looks.... ... sometimes even when I think I look TORE..... So he doesn't interfere at all....

 

[Evazhair]

My SO loves a woman who takes care of herself, so he has no problem with me doing my regimen, although I get teased about my products. He loves my hair and loves the fact that I take the time to take care of it. He doesn't care how I wear my hair,as long as looks good from proper maintainance.

 

[Starr1]

I keep it fresh for DH by switching up my updos. Plus it's down when it counts.

 

[TheNewFine]

YES - he wrecks my schedule. He hates the smell of my MN mix, can't baggy around him, he hates buns! If he weren't so sweet and dayum fine, I don't know.....

 

[ChocalateDiva]

Mine just said yesterday " What is the point of having pretty,healthy hair if you never wear it down? Whats the point"??

I had a looooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnggggggggg talk with him.

 

[seraphim712]

I keep it fresh for DH by switching up my updos. Plus it's down when it counts.

Star your hair is GORGEOUS this is exactly how I'd like my hair to be when curly or straight

 

[EMJazzy]

My husband doesn't bother me about my hair as long as I don't bother him about his football and cartoons.

 

[mzcris]

No not at all....I do what I need & want to do for me. I don't allow my husband to interfere with what I have to do anymore...

 

[tbaby_8]

My hubby doesn't say too much. He is more likely to say something if my hair is looking like a hot mess. As long as it is neat and in place, he is fine with it. Sometimes, he will say something about how my hair smells when I use some of the products because he likes the smell.

 

[tiffers]

My hair was TO' UP before I found LHCF, so dh looooves the fact that I'm taking care of it now. He brags to anyone who will listen about how soft my hair is, how much it's grown, how I don't wear weaves........ It makes me feel good that he's so proud of my accoplishments

 

[bbdgirl]

no he isnt. He loves my hair, but I think he appreciates it more the less often he sees it.
The real problem is his pulling at it when he are "making happy"

 

[Iluvsmuhgrass]

Nah, DH appreciates my sexy no matter how my hair looks.... ... sometimes even when I think I look TORE..... So he doesn't interfere at all....

LOL I LOVE THAT!!!!

I voted that it interferes with my regimen because he's rough on my hair. lol i'm easing him into my hair maintenance.

 

[DivaRox]

Star your hair is GORGEOUS this is exactly how I'd like my hair to be when curly or straight

Isn't it-I went into a small daze looking at her hair and that color is so pretty!

Anyway, I'm having trouble with dh now complaining left and right about how my oils smell. He does not care how good they make my scalp feel or that it's for a good cause.

 

[lilamae]

yes it hard to stay on my regi but its becuz of me not him...i haven't worn a hair scarf in the past two nights at my SO's I am going to cowash in the morning though

 

[Tebby1017]

My hubby is sick of the bun and/or phony pony. I broke down today and wore my hair down, which is the first time (and last) in about a month.

Tebby

 

[camibella]

I have to start my response like this because I told SO yesterday that we have to change one thing when "doing our thing". He's like sure baby wassup... I said ummmm the hair pulling has gots to stop, I dont want it getting in the way of my healthy hair journey. His response "Really? Awwww mehn that sucks baby. Maybe if I don't pull as much or a bit less?????" He had the puppy dog eyes thing going on.

I told him once I feel my hair has reached its full healthy state and its stronger then we'll talk. Until then we'll work something out. He's really supportive of whatever I do so he doesn't complain, just lets me know whether he agrees or not. I love that guy!
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[Kawaii1]

I have to start my response like this because I told SO yesterday that we have to change one thing when "doing our thing". He's like sure baby wassup... I said ummmm the hair pulling has gots to stop, I dont want it getting in the way of my healthy hair journey. His response "Really? Awwww mehn that sucks baby. Maybe if I don't pull as much or a bit less?????" He had the puppy dog eyes thing going on. ​

I told him once I feel my hair has reached its full healthy state and its stronger then we'll talk. Until then we'll work something out. He's really supportive of whatever I do so he doesn't complain, just lets me know whether he agrees or not. I love that guy!​

that is to funny, nasty girl!

I anticipate a few problems. I'm not at home right now so the DH can't say anything but he does not like buns! He hates them, he talks so much crap about buns. I'm going to have to think of another protective style when out with him because he doesn't play that bun crap. Other then that I think he will be supportive. He loves long hair so.... on the plus side my short hair tickles him so I anticipate him asking me to put the scarf on the longer it gets. He asks me to do it now so I won't have to worry around the house. Plus I'll just wear a ponytail and spaghetti straps around the house to avoid splits.

 

[Kawaii1]

I have to start my response like this because I told SO yesterday that we have to change one thing when "doing our thing". He's like sure baby wassup... I said ummmm the hair pulling has gots to stop, I dont want it getting in the way of my healthy hair journey. His response "Really? Awwww mehn that sucks baby. Maybe if I don't pull as much or a bit less?????" He had the puppy dog eyes thing going on. ​

I told him once I feel my hair has reached its full healthy state and its stronger then we'll talk. Until then we'll work something out. He's really supportive of whatever I do so he doesn't complain, just lets me know whether he agrees or not. I love that guy!​

that is to funny, nasty girl!

I anticipate a few problems. I'm not at home right now so the DH can't say anything but he does not like buns! He hates them, he talks so much crap about buns. I'm going to have to think of another protective style when out with him because he doesn't play that bun crap. Other then that I think he will be supportive. He loves long hair so.... on the plus side my short hair tickles him so I anticipate him asking me to put the scarf on the longer it gets. He asks me to do it now so I won't have to worry around the house. Plus I'll just wear a ponytail and spaghetti straps around the house to avoid splits.

 

[Prettyeyes]

My hubby is the opposite, when I want to flat iron or get a relaxer before I planned. He tells me "That's not what you planned to do is it, don't give up now, you'll regret it."

 

[FlowerHair]

I had to change my nightly hair do when we started sleeping together
He doesn't like scarves, so I just twist it in one big twist and secure it.
I try to do my hair stuff when he's not around, same with at home facials etc. I don't want to scare him with a white creamy face and a plastic bag on my head I'd rather do that alone LOL

Other than that he is very supportive and he is proud of my hair, I can tell...although he rarely talks about it. He likes it big and WILD!

 

[Dayjoy]

that is to funny, nasty girl!

I anticipate a few problems. I'm not at home right now so the DH can't say anything but he does not like buns! He hates them, he talks so much crap about buns. I'm going to have to think of another protective style when out with him because he doesn't play that bun crap. Other then that I think he will be supportive. He loves long hair so.... on the plus side my short hair tickles him so I anticipate him asking me to put the scarf on the longer it gets. He asks me to do it now so I won't have to worry around the house. Plus I'll just wear a ponytail and spaghetti straps around the house to avoid splits.

My DH is the same way. He had the nerve to tell me that a woman in a bun is a woman who couldn't do anything better to her hair. It's winter buddy, and stretch time, get with the program. He also hates my Amla oil. Otherwise, he loves that I am letting my hair grow and how soft and sweet smelling it is. He is still tentative though because I have cut it short three times during our 10-year marriage.

 

[LadyBlu]

This is an interesting thread. I often wonder what I would have done before I got married if I was on LHCF then. By the time I got into hair care, DH and I were past the "cute, impress me" stage. I just warned him that beauty is a process and I gets ugly at night satin scarf, bonnet, pin curls whatever.

I often wonder how those that are in new relationships handle healthy hair and their new men.

I wouldn't let a man and trying to be cute knock me off track, but it may be hard for him to accept at first. Hmm...