Khaiya
Well-Known Member
For my 4b hair I'm learning that most combs are not designed with it in mind. Even afro piks are often too small for my hair (need to find one of the wiiiide ones) I've been too focused on getting every knot out my hair and I'm realizing now I don't need to. So what if the comb doesn't glide thru from root to tip? My new goal is just to keep my hair from locking and matting and we've been getting on smashingly since then. All this to say its just about finding what's best for our hair type and not trying to make it act like 3a/b hair.
Does it mean I have to take more time with it? Yes! Does it mean I have to baby it more than other types of hair (especially since I damage it with relaxer)? You bet! Does it mean I can't wear it down every day and manipulate the hell out of it with combs, cuts and color like my straighter-haired friends? Most definitely! But I wouldn't trade it for the world, because it is healthy, it is unique, it is beautiful, and it is all mine. 


I've been natural, relaxed (currently), braided up, weaved up and dyed if that helps.