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What happened to the days when natural meant you didnt have a relaxer?
What happened to the days when natural meant you didnt have a relaxer?
I also think the effects are more far-reaching than we realize. I was speaking to my oldest daughter the other day about the thread I started on her, and she told me that some of her relaxed friends are regretting their decision to relax and want to "transition" back to natural. I know for a fact that this experience is pretty unique to her generation....I don't ever remember any of my 12 year old friends talking about "regretting" a relaxer.
What ms-gg said is absolutely correct IMO, but at the same time, in the "real world," I really don't think it matters. If I say the term BSS to a friend, they look at me like I've lost it.
And there are a LOT of so-called subcategories of "natural," too many to be relevant. There are some women who say you are natural only if you stick to conditioner and oil - no gel, no curl creams, no nothing. Some say the naturals mantra is always wearing your hair completely natural, meaning no twist outs, braid outs, or any of that - no altering of your natural texture, even if it's temporary.
I find it confusing, so I choose not to pay attention to it and just hope my hair keeps on growing.
Here is my thing:
The hip hop community is a subculture. And within that subculture you have conscious rap, gansta rap, female emcees, urgh, um....whatever it is that Soulja Boy and Wacky Flacky are doing, etc etc....
Same with the gang subculture. They all don't have to have the same beliefs and values to be a subculture, but they are a subculture because they deviate from the norms of society. That is what makes them a subculture...
Some women even think that natural means not wearing a weave. I've run into that idea quite a few times with relaxed women who swore they were "natural."
Wait...I agree with this...What is your point? I never said they weren't subcultures I just was saying I don't care.
Wait again...I just read "Wacky Flacky..." You are a mess!
qchelle, you also had a good point about women IRL discussing hair. If I'm out and see a woman with natural we usually smile at one another or say hi, or sometimes they will ask me about my hair. Women who are currently relaxed do this as well and tell me they are thinking of transitioning and ask how long I've been natural...
On the other hand, haven't members on here said that relaxed women ask them about their hair too? So maybe it's an overall hair subculture?
Really? I didn't know that. When I was relaxing, random women never stopped to speak to me about my hairnor did I stop and ask other women about their relaxed hair. That's probably because my hair was short. Maybe people stop and ask relaxed women questions if they have long hair?
I'm gonna subscribe to this, this is an interesting topic.
A friend of mine in college said she was eating in the dining hall and a Natural Hair club asked her to join because she'd recently BC'd. That in itself was surprising.
What ms-gg said is absolutely correct IMO, but at the same time, in the "real world," I really don't think it matters. If I say the term BSS to a friend, they look at me like I've lost it.
And there are a LOT of so-called subcategories of "natural," too many to be relevant. There are some women who say you are natural only if you stick to conditioner and oil - no gel, no curl creams, no nothing. Some say the naturals mantra is always wearing your hair completely natural, meaning no twist outs, braid outs, or any of that - no altering of your natural texture, even if it's temporary.
I find it confusing, so I choose not to pay attention to it and just hope my hair keeps on growing.
because black hair in general is a subculture in and of itself.
^^^Meeee toooo! (oh, I was talking to Poohbear)