See...My Fro Was About To Get Me Arrested...

[EllePixie]

So last night I went out with a friend for Halloween, and I had blown my hair out (pic below). We were at a lounge, and dudes kept STICKING THEIR HANDS IN MY HAIR. Now, for the most part, when I gave them a HUGE side eye, they apologized, or said it was pretty and they just wanted to touch it b/c they thought it was a wig...

BUT-

This one dude reacted VERY differently...he looked at me like I was a huge jerk for not wanting him to touch my hair and was basically like, "Get over it." Then my friend said he was doing too much, and he proceeded to get in our faces and try to get wild! I told him to go away, and he did...but came back and gave me the finger!!! Ooooh, if I wasn't about to take my earrings off...some people obviously feel WAY too entitled in this world.

Anywho...that's my rant. Happy Halloween, ladies!

 

[DDTexlaxed]

You are one beautiful woman! Girl, I'd be asking you if you were Niko's cousin! I can't wait to have a large puffalicious fro like yours!

 

[Platinum]

Beautiful fro!

 

[Akemi]

Nice fro!

That guy's a jerk. You can't go around just touching people's hair. And he had the nerve to get mad??

 

[brooklyngal73]

This is because people have a wild sense of entitlement.

Fro looks good, Elle!

Nice fro!

That guy's a jerk. You can't go around just touching people's hair. And he had the nerve to get mad??

 

[Janet']

Cute fro and I adore the color!

 

[diadall]

I have been admiring your siggy photos for weeks. I am glad to get a better look at it. Its so big and beautiful.

 

[EllePixie]

You are one beautiful woman! Girl, I'd be asking you if you were Niko's cousin! I can't wait to have a large puffalicious fro like yours!

Aw thanks! Unfortunately...I don't think there were too many of Niko's cousins at this place, if you know what I mean...lol! Last week was my 10 month anni, so you'll have a big fro in no time!

 

[Chocolatelove2010]

hahaha I'm laughing because the other day I saw a guy with your hair and I REALLY just wanted to touch it. Ofcourse, I didn't...

Crazy guy for getting pissed off.

You look stunning!

 

[SincerelyJouet]

Ellie your hair is beautiful! I am in love with the color myself. Did he think this was first grade where little boys pulled girls hair when they liked them? SMH. This is my VERY first time to the forum and this story made me laugh. I can't wait to start my journey. =)

 

[FlowerHair]

I love your fro!!

 

[EllePixie]

Ellie your hair is beautiful! I am in love with the color myself. Did he think this was first grade where little boys pulled girls hair when they liked them? SMH. This is my VERY first time to the forum and this story made me laugh. I can't wait to start my journey. =)

Thank you! I hope not...b/c he was fugs mcgee and I didn't want him anywhere near me or my hair!

Good luck on your journey, the ladies here are very helpful!

 

[sungtongs]

Awful jerks aside, your hair is absolutely gorgeous!
The color is to die for.

 

[lolascurls]

Hon, just brush your shoulders off....like Jay-z said! Your fro is absolutely lovely! :wow:
Don't let one entitled idiot get to you...

 

[My Friend]

Girl I feel your pain. For some strange reason people feel like a fro means freak or feel me. Everyone knows the stereotype of not touching a bw hair but I guess that only applies to relaxed or straight hair.

 

[SincerelyJouet]

Thank you! I hope not...b/c he was fugs mcgee and I didn't want him anywhere near me or my hair!

Good luck on your journey, the ladies here are very helpful!

Thank you very much! =)

 

[EllePixie]

Girl I feel your pain. For some strange reason people feel like a fro means freak or feel me. Everyone knows the stereotype of not touching a bw hair but I guess that only applies to relaxed or straight hair.

This! Just gets me all stabby inside! LOL, I've really been mad about this all day, I think it's the after effects of alcohol...I need to go eat a burrito or something and calm the heck down!

 

[Leeda.the.Paladin]

That fro!!

 

[My Friend]

BTW...beautiful I love the look of your fro.

 

[finickyone]

Heck, I want to touch it too & I am hetro. lol

Your fro is beautiful & the color is gorgeous. Did you have it cut to form this shape?

 

[EllePixie]

Heck, I want to touch it too & I am hetro. lol

Your fro is beautiful & the color is gorgeous. Did you have it cut to form this shape?

LOL, you ladies are funny. Thanks, I knew better than to post my rant without pitchas!

Nope, didn't have to cut my hair - I just blew it out!

 

[runwaydream]

your fro is gorgeous.

same thing happened to me when i wore my fro out (see my siggy) i was sooo annoyed. you're better than me bc i didn't just give him a side eye i slapped his hand away. guess its a good thing i dont frequent hood clubs, cause from the stuff i hear in this forum it could've ended badly. lol

 

[blackmaven]

Your Afro is gorgeous!

 

[EllePixie]

your fro is gorgeous.

same thing happened to me when i wore my fro out (see my siggy) i was sooo annoyed. you're better than me bc i didn't just give him a side eye i slapped his hand away. guess its a good thing i dont frequent hood clubs, cause from the stuff i hear in this forum it could've ended badly. lol

LOL...giiirl...you know I was ducking and dodging those hands!

And thank you! Yours was gorg as well, and I love sisterlocks. I just know I am fickle and would want to take them out after a week!

 

[yodie]

Your hair is beautiful!!

 

[runwaydream]

LOL...giiirl...you know I was ducking and dodging those hands!

And thank you! Yours was gorg as well, and I love sisterlocks. I just know I am fickle and would want to take them out after a week!

thx. and yea, i was looking at some old pix where my hair was blowdry'd and flat ironed and i had that yearning to go back to that look. but then i remembered the split ends, single strand knots, the dread of detangling, the constant moisturizing, sealing, and braiding, the 12+ hr hair sessions and yeeeea.. i'm good. lol

 

[Stepiphanie]

People are crazy!!

That is one gorgeous Fro!

 

[geejay]

Chalk it up to the power of your gorgeous fro! People know better, and still can't help themselves!

Like someone said before you and you are hair are stunning!

 

[infojunkie]

Can I touch it too????? Purty please???

 

[EllePixie]

Can I touch it too????? Purty please???

Ah see - that's different! Requests are granted, lol! Actually, it was SO funny...when I was leaving this white guy yelled out to me, "Nice hair, I have a fro too!" and pointed to his hair...I already had an attitude b/c of the other guy, so I was like, "Yea, but mine is MY hair." Po' thang looked a little hurt and was like, "Mine is too! come touch it!" So I come over and wig check him...Sure enough, it was his hair! He had curly hair and had teased it out!!! I gave him a hug and was like, "Get it boo!"