Your Man.....the Sperm Donor

[ChanelNo5]

Let's say you meet a nice UE man who checks all your boxes. You begin dating seriously, time passes, and one day he tells you he donated sperm while in college for extra cash. A LOT of sperm. He thinks this is funny as he used it to fund their liquor runs. He has no moral qualms with it as he thinks he was providing a service for those in need. Keep in mind this was a very long time ago. He's in his thirties now. Does this impact your desire to build a future family with him? Knowing he may have 50-11 chirren running around?

 

[CurliDiva]

If he donated anonymously, these "chirren" will never know his identity, and are not legally or morally his. Donor sperm is often needed by infertile or same-sex couples, so he is right - it is a needed service and a medical procedure like giving blood.....IMO

 

[MzLady78]

Wouldn't bother me.

 

[destinyseeker]

The fact that he takes it lightly does not lower the significance of the sperm "donation" in other people's lives.

 

[quirkydimples]

Ok...I've had it with trying to figure it out. What does UE stand for?

 

[MzLady78]

Ok...I've had it with trying to figure it out. What does UE stand for?

Upper Echelon.

 

[ChanelNo5]

Ok...I've had it with trying to figure it out. What does UE stand for?

Upper echelon

 

[quirkydimples]

@MzLady78 and @ChanelNo5

Duh. I knew it would be something simple. Thanks

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

I wouldn't want to have kids with him. I'd have to blood test all their prom dates. No thanks.

 

[movingforward]

No. But I side eye him for thinking it was funny.

Hopefully he donated sperm in another state that he doesn't, currently resides in.

 

[giigii613]

I would only be concerned about the sperm he donated to women in person.

 

[Makenzie]

Do you plan to have kids with him? How would your kids know they weren't dating their bio sibling when they get older?

 

[GeorginaSparks]

I don't think it's a big deal. And I would have kids for him.

 

[Topsido]

I'm more concerned about his reason for doing it. It shows his lack of judgment. And he's still laissez-faire about it. Just watch how he resolves problems. Is he someone that stays doing stupid things and luck auto correct for him?

 

[ChanelNo5]

^^^No his house is completely in order.

 

[LunadeMiel]

It would be a deal breaker.