Younger Black Women, say like 26 and under

CarLiTa said:
I'm just curious what all these old white men who seem to like black women were doing when these beauty standards were being developed... but that's probably an illogical question to ask:lol: Like, "did you want to get with beautiful black women back in the 50s/60s, and society made it hard for you to do? Is that why you're approaching young black women now? as an oldie?":look:

I wish I had the balls to ask some those questions, though... because I am genuinely curious...
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Hmm, never thought of it from that perspective. Either way, I still wish they'd leave me be.
 
Case in point... here's me at brunch yesterday :look:
He jumped in my photo as I was taking it and then asked for my number. I was like sorry boo :nono:
Its an interesting phenomena. I think they believe young BW are exotical these days but who knows


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^^^^^^^ That picture is HIGH-larious. :lol:

A few weeks ago, me and my soror were tailgaiting on LSU's campus. If you know anything about LSU on game day, you know that beer, jello shots and different frat drink mixes are abundant. Anyway, this 45-50 year old clearly inebriated white man came up to us and said we were the most attractive girls here. After saying thank you he said, I'm really drunk and stumbled away. :lol:
 
Harina said:
Do you find yourselves getting hit on more and more by older white men? Like men who are clearly way too old for you. They know it. You know it. But they still sort of say hi and prod you with their stick. Like they assume you are single and you'll give them a chance.
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Yes and I hate it. I want to just say every time your bold but clearly stupid
 
It happened to me when I was younger <20 and it continues over the age of 30. It doesn't bother me because I rarely date guys my age anyway.
 
Grand Prix
I agree with everything you wrote. Netherlands has no romance. People are as cold as the weather. Sranangman no better :lachen::lachen::lachen:!

Grand Prix said:
White. :lol:
I actually live a little further away from Amsterdam right now, so everywhere I look are Dutch men, but Amsterdam itself is very multicultural with a lot of expats.
Dutch men though.. Let me put it this way. Whenever I read threads over here about men paying your dinners like it's a given, opening your doors, pumping gass even!, I reaaally want to move to the States to date there instead. There is no gallantry at all. One of the joys of equality between men and women. :look:
One plus is that they seem a lot more concerned about a woman's personality than her looks. Dutch women aren't too concerned about their looks, either. And the men again love that.
Luckily the expats (and 50+ white men :look:) still appreciate my high heels and bright nail polish. :lol:

Also, never come here to look for men who want to get married. Couples here move in together, than maybe get married after a few years.
If I ever congratulate anyone for getting married, they're like :shrug: nothing's changed. :rolleyes:
I need to get out of here. :lol:
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@blah54 He was sooo posh and so inattentive! That dude took me to the most expensive, fanciest restaurants. Then he hardly gave me time to order, or was impatient for me to finish my food.
Once, I went to his place and he made dinner. For himself.
The list goes on. And it's mostly food-related. :nono::lachen:

ladyviper said:
I agree with everything you wrote. Netherlands has no romance. People are as cold as the weather. Sranangman no better :lachen::lachen::lachen:!
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Girrrl all they have to offer is sweet talk! :lol:
Where do you live? :)
 
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Grand Prix

Rotjeknor :grin::grin::grin: cold as phuck here!

he made dinner for himself?? what a loser!!:nono::nono:
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This is extra shocking because in our culture, mine and Grand Prix
offering food is a must for company. You know what I mean girl? I guess most South-Americans/Caribs know this. A guy like that would never be a right fit.

Grand Prix said:
@blah54 He was sooo posh and so inattentive! That dude took me to the most expensive, fanciest restaurants. Then he hardly gave me time to order, or was impatient for me to finish my food.
Once, I went to his place and he made dinner. For himself.
The list goes on. And it's mostly food-related. :nono::lachen:


Girrrl all they have to offer is sweet talk! :lol:
Where do you live? :)
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ladyviper Me too!!
I knoww!! And tomorrow rain. :cry:

Yepp. It went against all values my mama taugt me. Feed the people you love! :lachen: I was young and stupid to put up with that. Now I know to stand up for my needs. Food!! :lol:
Is it weird that I appreciate a man who likes to eat? Who will love my food and ask for 2nds? :grin:
 
older white men seem to have a fetish for young black women....i think it's b/c they believe we don't have much and would do anything to be "taken care of"...IME it's usually an older white male with a little cash...and it pisses me off b/c i know they feel like i/we can be bought...and sadly, it's true in a lot of instances...i can't tell you how many older WM/ young BW "couples" that come into our store (BSS) and she's just sliding things into the cart like it's supermarket sweepstakes...and the old fool is a the register with his plastic ready to pay..smh
 
CHI10 said:
older white men seem to have a fetish for young black women....i think it's b/c they believe we don't have much and would do anything to be "taken care of"...IME it's usually an older white male with a little cash...and it pisses me off b/c i know they feel like i/we can be bought...and sadly, it's true in a lot of instances...i can't tell you how many older WM/ young BW "couples" that come into our store (BSS) and she's just sliding things into the cart like it's supermarket sweepstakes...and the old fool is a the register with his plastic ready to pay..smh
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Where do you live? If you don't want to say specifically, maybe just the region??
 
SummerSolstice said:
Case in point... here's me at brunch yesterday :look:
He jumped in my photo as I was taking it and then asked for my number. I was like sorry boo :nono:
Its an interesting phenomena. I think they believe young BW are exotical these days but who knows


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Omg I'm :rofl:

CHI10 said:
older white men seem to have a fetish for young black women....i think it's b/c they believe we don't have much and would do anything to be "taken care of"...IME it's usually an older white male with a little cash...and it pisses me off b/c i know they feel like i/we can be bought...and sadly, it's true in a lot of instances...i can't tell you how many older WM/ young BW "couples" that come into our store (BSS) and she's just sliding things into the cart like it's supermarket sweepstakes...and the old fool is a the register with his plastic ready to pay..smh
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Well damn!
 
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