Younger Black Women, say like 26 and under

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Harina

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Do you find yourselves getting hit on more and more by older white men? Like men who are clearly way too old for you. They know it. You know it. But they still sort of say hi and prod you with their stick. Like they assume you are single and you'll give them a chance.
 
Yeah, it happens. It's got me wondering: aren't yall the ones who created the European beauty standard? The one that I clearly do not fit at all? I don't get it and I don't want it.
 
Yep. It's weird cause it happens to me when I wear a braidout, never with straight hair :ohwell: I had this one Pierce Brosnan looking dude pay for my entire table's meal...seriously considered it before i saw his wedding ring :nono:
 
Yes. Some are married. One would have wifed me up if I let him. He was 11 years my senior. Mind you I'm 26 and I could pass for my late teens. I find it kind of insulting with the married ones because they would never marry a black woman, but they would use us for sex.
 
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CarLiTa said:
Yeah, it happens. It's got me wondering: aren't yall the ones who created the European beauty standard? The one that I clearly do not fit at all? I don't get it and I don't want it.
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You'll be surprised what some of these white people are attracted to. A lot of times non-white people tend to be more fixated on the European standard of beauty than Whites themselves...
 
TBH, I never keep track. I don't mind it either. I like it when single men hit on me (shameless, all ego at this point), even if they are old or wrinkly.

They have the funniest comments :lol:. I never fail to burst out laughing. Sometimes they even give me dating advice which is so hilarious. They never get the digits so no harm, no foul.
 
FlyyBohemian said:
You'll be surprised what some of these white people are attracted to. A lot of times non-white people tend to be more fixated on the European standard of beauty than Whites themselves...
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Yes, especially black people (well duh!) and asian people. Specifically I've noticed Koreans moreso than other asians. The hispanics I've come across don't seem to be as fixated but maybe because alot of them are already kind of whitish looking as is.

greight said:
TBH, I never keep track. I don't mind it either. I like it when single men hit on me (shameless, all ego at this point), even if they are old or wrinkly.

They have the funniest comments :lol:. I never fail to burst out laughing. Sometimes they even give me dating advice which is so hilarious. They never get the digits so no harm, no foul.
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Oh gosh, they give you advice too. What on earth do they say??
 
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I'm 26 when white men over 30 hit on me. Lol I automatically think serial killer!!!!
Old white men scare the shyt out of me.

I hear the law and order SVU music playing in my head.
 
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Believe when I tell you it will never end as a married older black woman with brown skin and wild natural hair I get hit on by Caucasian men all the time young & old .

I've been seeing a few older interracial couples white men / black women.
 
I'm my 30's now and when I was in my 20's it was happening to me as well and still does. I think it's kinda sick. Actually, it's older men of any race TBH. I will never forget being out with my widowed mom once and a white man came by our table to talk to us. I'm thinking uh oh mom, looks like a gentleman caller is trying to come in a holla at you on a sly. Mind you my mom is gorgeous and we both look 10 years younger than our age. To my surprise, this joker started trying to hit on me and he was like 50 something. I was like ewww.........I don't think so!
 
DirtyJerzeyGirly said:
:lachen::lachen::lachen:

@Grand Prix I see by your location you're in Amsterdam. What are the men like over there?
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White. :lol:
I actually live a little further away from Amsterdam right now, so everywhere I look are Dutch men, but Amsterdam itself is very multicultural with a lot of expats.
Dutch men though.. Let me put it this way. Whenever I read threads over here about men paying your dinners like it's a given, opening your doors, pumping gass even!, I reaaally want to move to the States to date there instead. There is no gallantry at all. One of the joys of equality between men and women. :look:
One plus is that they seem a lot more concerned about a woman's personality than her looks. Dutch women aren't too concerned about their looks, either. And the men again love that.
Luckily the expats (and 50+ white men :look:) still appreciate my high heels and bright nail polish. :lol:

Also, never come here to look for men who want to get married. Couples here move in together, than maybe get married after a few years.
If I ever congratulate anyone for getting married, they're like :shrug: nothing's changed. :rolleyes:
I need to get out of here. :lol:
 
Yes. Guy that are about 10-20 years older, and married mind you, always seem to be the main ones flirting and trying to get with me for some reason. Most of them know I got a SO too. Ratchet mess. I went to lunch with a seemingly innocent guy 13 yrs older than me on our lunch break a few weeks ago. He was trying to flirt the whole time while talking about how much he cares for his wife. He paid for both our lunches, walked me to my car and randomly gave me a not so innocent hug. Y'all should have seen the look on his face when I shut that mess down. I kind of felt bad for him until we were back at work and he asked me when could the next lunch could happen.
 
Ugh, had only THREE men ask me out this year. And they were all in this category... :nono: :whyme:

Funny that you should mention the hair thing. When my hair was straight and banging, nothin'. They only come calling when my hair is out of sorts, which was probably three times this year. :lachen:

PLEEEEAAAASEEEE LET 2013 BE BETTER!!!
 
Grand Prix said:
White. :lol:
I actually live a little further away from Amsterdam right now, so everywhere I look are Dutch men, but Amsterdam itself is very multicultural with a lot of expats.
Dutch men though.. Let me put it this way. Whenever I read threads over here about men paying your dinners like it's a given, opening your doors, pumping gass even!, I reaaally want to move to the States to date there instead. There is no gallantry at all. One of the joys of equality between men and women. :look:
One plus is that they seem a lot more concerned about a woman's personality than her looks. Dutch women aren't too concerned about their looks, either. And the men again love that.
Luckily the expats (and 50+ white men :look:) still appreciate my high heels and bright nail polish. :lol:

Also, never come here to look for men who want to get married. Couples here move in together, than maybe get married after a few years.
If I ever congratulate anyone for getting married, they're like :shrug: nothing's changed. :rolleyes:
I need to get out of here. :lol:
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Grand Prix thanks for your comment. We have several ladies on board here that live in Scandavanian countires as well and they say the same thing you said in the bold lol
 
Yes, old white men love me. Old men PERIOD. Some of them look older than my great-grandma did. SMH

And I get these high school boys that know I am definitely too old for them. Where is my happy medium? :lol:
 
FlyyBohemian said:
You'll be surprised what some of these white people are attracted to. A lot of times non-white people tend to be more fixated on the European standard of beauty than Whites themselves...
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I'm just curious what all these old white men who seem to like black women were doing when these beauty standards were being developed... but that's probably an illogical question to ask:lol: Like, "did you want to get with beautiful black women back in the 50s/60s, and society made it hard for you to do? Is that why you're approaching young black women now? as an oldie?":look:

I wish I had the balls to ask some those questions, though... because I am genuinely curious...
Also, as they do for greight, they offer me quite a bit of advice: about my career and once in a while about love. Older white people are generally very supportive of me, and I really appreciate that:yep:
 
Harina said:
Oh gosh, they give you advice too. What on earth do they say??
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Just like "don't date men who aren't anything" or "settle down with someone older since these young men don't have it" (:look:) or my personal favorite: "leave that job, you're smarter than that."
 
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