Unfortunately...and they ain't the Daniel Craig types, either.
Harina said:So this is definitely something that has increased ALOT for you in the past couple of year?
CarLiTa said:Yeah, it happens. It's got me wondering: aren't yall the ones who created the European beauty standard? The one that I clearly do not fit at all? I don't get it and I don't want it.
You'll be surprised what some of these white people are attracted to. A lot of times non-white people tend to be more fixated on the European standard of beauty than Whites themselves...
TBH, I never keep track. I don't mind it either. I like it when single men hit on me (shameless, all ego at this point), even if they are old or wrinkly.
They have the funniest comments . I never fail to burst out laughing. Sometimes they even give me dating advice which is so hilarious. They never get the digits so no harm, no foul.
Yep. Especially 50+.
White.
I actually live a little further away from Amsterdam right now, so everywhere I look are Dutch men, but Amsterdam itself is very multicultural with a lot of expats.
Dutch men though.. Let me put it this way. Whenever I read threads over here about men paying your dinners like it's a given, opening your doors, pumping gass even!, I reaaally want to move to the States to date there instead. There is no gallantry at all. One of the joys of equality between men and women.
One plus is that they seem a lot more concerned about a woman's personality than her looks. Dutch women aren't too concerned about their looks, either. And the men again love that.
Luckily the expats (and 50+ white men ) still appreciate my high heels and bright nail polish.
Also, never come here to look for men who want to get married. Couples here move in together, than maybe get married after a few years.
If I ever congratulate anyone for getting married, they're like :shrug: nothing's changed.
I need to get out of here.
You'll be surprised what some of these white people are attracted to. A lot of times non-white people tend to be more fixated on the European standard of beauty than Whites themselves...
Oh gosh, they give you advice too. What on earth do they say??