Would YOU want to marry you?

Would YOU want to marry you? (multiple choice)

  • Absolutely - I am/was a great catch!

    Votes: 107 66.9%

  • Uhm, yes? Maybe . . .

    Votes: 24 15.0%

  • Nope - I don't know how dh does it :giggle:

    Votes: 12 7.5%

  • Nope - and that's probably why I'm single!

    Votes: 17 10.6%
  • Total voters
    160
  • Poll closed .
I would. I feel like I have alot to offer.
Smart, sexy, good mother, handy with
some tools, I cook, I'm faithful, I have
goals, I move towards them etc etc etc

And my is the !:blush:
 
Oh no.
Never.

I am way to much hard work.
Too stubborn, too set in my ways, too easy to haul if things aren't being done the nina-way.
I could never cater to someone like me.

I'm a really nice person though:grin:.

And I would definately pick me as a mother though!
 
Sure. I'm a good person, I'm smart, attractive, I work hard, play hard, love hard, and I handle my business. I have a lot to offer and a lot to give.
 
I surely would!! Particularly at this point in my life, I'm really in love with myself right now and that's the most important thing.
 
No because I am not ready to get married. I don't have a desire to marry at the moment. I also have so many things that I want to accomplish on my own before I settle down. I do not think I would be truly happy until I go out and do what I want (and need) to do. I want to be content and happy with myself before I make a commitment like that. I love who I am and there is only one me, but I still think that I am a work in progress.
 
Not at all! There is no poll option for me. I would NOT want to marry myself or a man like me, but I am an amazing catch.

Good thing men and women look for different things in a relationship.

My SO is happy with me and I am happy with him. I don't think he would want to marry someone like himself either.
 
I am JUST now being a great wife. I took the question as "If I were DH, would I feel honored to say I was his wife?"(If that makes sense). I asked myself this about a month ago, right after I saw a thread by DLewis and read Dr. Laura Schlessinger's book The Proper Feeding and Care of Husbands.
Before I read that book, I thought I was the greatest thing and dh needed to get with the program. But I realized to be a good mate you have to think about the other persons needs. So I've been making a great effort to treat him how I want to be treated. I now go out of my way to make him feel special.

I know his love primary language is acts of kindness(The Five Love Languages) and I make it a point to do things I know he will appreciate like making his plate and making a big fuss over him. I got many of the ideas from the thread I read... and you know what? His response has been completely POSITIVE. He is breaking his neck trying to please me too.

So yes, I would marry me. I use to think I was a good catch but now I know I am. :)
 
I have to say yes... Im a damn good catch if I must say so myself!

- Christian.. good God fearing woman.

- very good with children.

- have no problems letting the man be the man, but can hold my own if need be.

- come from a good family, both parents are still married today.

- I am not needy.

- as someone said earlier, definitley a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed.

- in shape, and have a nice body....and sexy too boot.

Alas I am married though! So my husband is one lucky man!! I tell him often that he is blessed!
 
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I voted maybe...I have alot of issues that I still have to deal with within myself and I know Im going to need marriage counseling before and during marriage. But if Im being treated right, getting that good loving, then Imma make sure I take care of home. I can cook, keep a clean house, Im financial stable, I can be a freak when I need to so why not... I just worry about combining accounts and being married to some in-laws I dont particulary care for...
 
I need someone who is better than me in my weak spots, and whose weak spots I can contribute to. So no, two of me married to each other would be a no-go. I wouldn't marry another me.
 
not at all. :nono: I'm way too passive. Two passive people together. Nothing would get done :/
 
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mwedzi said:
I need someone who is better than me in my weak spots, and whose weak spots I can contribute to. So no, two of me married to each other would be a no-go. I wouldn't marry another me.
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This is one of the truest and best things I've ever read on the internet.
 
Nope. I'd want someone who has similar values and interests, but not someone exactly like me. My partner needs to have his own life, hobbies, and experiences, otherwise, I'll get bored if he can't teach me anything new.
 
This is very amusing and interesting.

I voted "Uhm, yes? Maybe..."


I chose that answer because I think I am a good woman, but I can be difficult to know. I wonder if I would be willing to go through all the effort that I would expect a man to go through in order to truly know me as a person. I have a lot of walls up.

I sometimes imagine what men are thinking when they see me passing by. I believe they may be thinking I have potential, but my light doesn't shine brightly enough for them.

I think men (mature ones anyhow) are often uncertain of how to approach me and take the safe, friends (or rather associates) route.

Sometimes I can be very curt, and I spare no time for bull. I think I would be incredibly intimidated by that trait in someone else because it makes it seems as if "I" wouldn't be forgiving of even small mistakes (which isn't true-of myself-but, from the outside looking in I would probably walk in the other direction).


Would I marry me? Maybe.
 
Yes, I would ! More importantly, I think I would make a fantastic mother and a very nuturing and supportive wife... I have my emotional flaws, but w/ love, care, and patience, I think we can work together well as a team :yep:.
 
I'd need to be very patient. But I know 'I'd' have my back; feed me right; love me and pray for me... the ultimate Team Mate. :yep:
 
This is the thread I wanted to make as a spinoff to some other thread I made. I feel like if you don't even want to marry yourself, why would someone else feel differently.

No I wouldn't marry myself right now, and because of that I'm trying to work on those things that I don't like about myself so that I will fall in love and yearn to marry myself. Someone else will follow sometime afterwards.

Pros of me
-I'm very smart
-I'm so funny to be around. I'm a cornball. Goofy too.
-I'm Creative
-Very free-spirit.
-Kind, generous, forgiving, romantic,
-People person. I can meet and get along with anyone
-Business oriented. If I don't know how to run something...I can learn very quickly. I'm a leader in a lot of situations

Cons
-Unorganized
-Stubborn and spoiled by no one other than myself
-Lazy to a certain extent. I love my relaxation time a lil too much
-Argumentative
-Know-it-all
-I'm short sassy n sweet, but when I get mad (rare) I will crack snapple and pop on you.
-Not as far in my Christian journey as I would like
-Naive
-Pushover
 
Yes I'd marry myself! I wish I could split myself in two and just marry myself right now. I know when to let things go and when to go after myself. I can encourage myself and I know exactly what I want. It would be a match made in heaven =)
 
SimpleKomplexity said:
This is the thread I wanted to make as a spinoff to some other thread I made. I feel like if you don't even want to marry yourself, why would someone else feel differently.

No I wouldn't marry myself right now, and because of that I'm trying to work on those things that I don't like about myself so that I will fall in love and yearn to marry myself. Someone else will follow sometime afterwards.

Pros of me
-I'm very smart
-I'm so funny to be around. I'm a cornball. Goofy too.
-I'm Creative
-Very free-spirit.
-Kind, generous, forgiving, romantic,
-People person. I can meet and get along with anyone
-Business oriented. If I don't know how to run something...I can learn very quickly. I'm a leader in a lot of situations

Cons
-Unorganized
-Stubborn and spoiled by no one other than myself
-Lazy to a certain extent. I love my relaxation time a lil too much
-Argumentative
-Know-it-all
-I'm short sassy n sweet, but when I get mad (rare) I will crack snapple and pop on you.
-Not as far in my Christian journey as I would like
-Naive
-Pushover
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question

will you only be able to love yourself once you fix all your cons or flaws??? and then feel you will be ready to be loved by another
 
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