True!If i was 16 yrs old.....
Ok... well in this *highly hypothetical* question... the man who asked this young woman out is 26 years old...
Miss Brown you're killing meYou sound JUST like my best friend!Okay, lets get down to business.
Why would he ask her to go to the mall? Did he mean go to the mall to MEET UP and then switch cars and head out to the real date?
Did she go? Is he broke? What are u gonna do in the mall? Unless there is a Dave & Busters in there which is a cool setting for a date then we dont need to go the mall.
Windowshop and talk? And then ask me if im hungry and proceed to the Cookie stand or Food court? NO!
How did it go down?
Miss Brown you're killing meYou sound JUST like my best friend!
I'm supposed to be studying, so I'll give you the cliffs notes version.
I met a cute guy at work 2 months ago, he's been trying to talk to me ever since. Finally gave him the number a few days ago becaue he seemed nice and respectful.
We agreed to get together tomorrow when I finish school. Tonight on the phone I asked where exactly we were going to go since he suggested we do something in his area (I'm still new to the city). I wanted to make it clear that I was NOT going to his home.
Then he tells me, the mall.............. That was me on the phone, I was so utterly flabbergasted that I was at a complete loss for words. He was like, hello? hello? Anyway, I told him I might not be able to make it, and that I would let him know tomorrow.
He doesn't have a car, and I don't know anything about his financial situation except that he is still finishing up school (business) and he works security.
Either way, I think the mall is a very un-creative and juvenile idea for a first date...
I hear you... in his defence though, he is in the process of buying a home.Okay, all that other stuff, blah blah blah
You buried the other important part... HE DOESN'T HAVE A CAR? HE'S 26 AND DOESN'T HAVE A CAR?!!! WTF???
Unless you live in New York City or something, that's ridiculous!
I hear you... in his defence though, he is in the process of buying a home.
Im married and past 26 but I werent I would go on a date to the mall in a HEARTBEAT... iits a cool, open, public, non-committal place...
Aint nothing worse than being at a fancy restaurant 20 mins into the date & realizing that you cant stand this emmer effer..
or being 30 mins into a movie and he putting his arm around you & you are secretly wishing the theater had technical difficulties so you could bolt out of there
IMO, the 1st date should eb short & sweet... walk around, sit on a bench, whatever...out in public... see if he can hold a decent conversation before you invest any time or effort into him... see if he can keep your attention despite you eyeing that fierce D & B bag in the window of the signature store in the mall....
See if he can eat a Cinnabon without making a mess before ya let em take you upscale & embarrass ya
See if he has stalker & possessive issues while ya got 1000 other folks around
thats a good perspective on the issue.
I would ask him; what are we going to be doing at the mall. She may have something sweet planned out. But if it was simply window shopping then I would not go; that was something that I did in HS.
Maybe he is gonna talk about all the things he is gonna buy when he finishes school
Like stated before, I would ask what are we gonna do at the mall.."dunno, just chill and talk" should not be an acceptable answer.
The bolded made me LOLMaybe he is gonna talk about all the things he is gonna buy when he finishes school
Like stated before, I would ask what are we gonna do at the mall.."dunno, just chill and talk" should not be an acceptable answer.
You stole my answer.