Would you be upset if

I have been married for many years, but I don't know that I could clean that up after DH. And I'm thankful I've never had to.

ETA: To answer your question, I don't think I'd be upset because I know how I am.
 
evsbaby said:
You are sick and you vomit and your other half refuse to clean it up?
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That's a tough one. After my mother had surgery she got sick and I cleaned it up but I didn't want too:nono:. Cleaning up someone else's vomit makes me feel like I'm going to vomit. It's so gross. The person would have to be really young or really sick for me to clean up their vomit. I'm sorry don't think I answered your question.
 
Vomit is so gross. If you are able to clean it up (meaning you aren't deathly ill or on the verge of passing out), then I think you should. :ohwell:

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Yup, especially if he acts as he's above cleaning it up like some superior ish

That would be a major deal breaker for anything serious cause I know he wouldn't be there for sicker or poorer
 
**SaSSy** said:
That would be a major deal breaker for anything serious cause I know he wouldn't be there for sicker or poorer
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I think that's a little harsh. I don't think it's too much to expect an adult to try their best to make it to the bathroom or trash can if they are feeling sick. But again, I guess it depends on just how sick the person is. I clean up after my kids but...I don't know. Adult vomit makes me gag.:lol:

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I went on a cruise with my ex-husband and that dude vomited like that chick with the green pea soup in that exorcist movie. He drank several glasses of wine. When we got to our room, he ran to the bathroom. Mind you I washed quite a few of our things and had them hanging. It looked like he spun in a circle and vomited all over the walls and tiles. He never opened the lid of the toilet! He even got it on the toilet handle. Imagine that? I wasn't thrilled AT ALL but I cleaned it and him up. It took me ONE HOUR to clean a tiny cruise ship bathroom. The smell lasted the entire trip no matter how many times the maid cleaned the bathroom.

My ex-SIL cleaned my vomit out of my car. I had some 24-hour virus. She was 3 months pregnant and already sick herself. That was love. LOL!
 
He just came home. I told him I'm not happy. He says if I was truly sick he would have cleaned it up, but he was not going clean up vomit caused by alcohol overindulgence:look::look::perplexed
 
No because I am not cleaning up DH's vomit unless he is really ill. In all the year's I've known him he's only vomited twice and both were hangovers and luckily for him he made it to the toilet :look:
 
evsbaby said:
He just came home. I told him I'm not happy. He says if I was truly sick he would have cleaned it up, but he was not going clean up vomit caused by alcohol overindulgence:look::look::perplexed
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So you were drunk? Yeah, I'm with him. Sorry.:lol:

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evsbaby said:
He just came home. I told him I'm not happy. He says if I was truly sick he would have cleaned it up, but he was not going clean up vomit caused by alcohol overindulgence:look::look::perplexed
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Wait, you were drunk? You fail to mention that part. I though it was like seriously ill like flu, cancer, etc.

Nah, I wouldn't had cleaned up your drunken vomit either.
 
I would be annoyed, only because it wouldn't be a big deal for me to clean up for a sick SO. I would hope to have the same in return.

Caused by alcohol, nope. You will be changing and cleaning it up immediately on your own.
 
evsbaby said:
He just came home. I told him I'm not happy. He says if I was truly sick he would have cleaned it up, but he was not going clean up vomit caused by alcohol overindulgence:look::look::perplexed
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Sorry, nope, no can do. I thought I expected a lot from my dh.
 
I would be very hurt. Like Marilyn Monroe said, "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
 
Yes. And I've cleaned up worse from xh when he was almost dead and hospitalized.

Be mad at the SO. Lol. He wrong.
 
I was about to say depends on why. If I'm hung over, I grab the bleach wipes n go about my business, now morning sickness, stomach flu or something he'd better hold me down!

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Not upset..maybe a little irritated.

I threw up (alcohol related) in my car in early months of dating my SO and he cleaned it up and told me that was my one time pass for drinking past my limit and him cleaning up if I vomit.

It was very messy too.

On the other hand..I deal with bodily fluids, secretions or whatever in my work so I would clean it up without a second thought. I don't enjoy it. It just doesn't bother me.
 
For alcohol? No, absolutely not. I would be so upset if my SO got so drunk that they vomited anyhow, let alone couldn't make it to a toilet.
 
From alcohol, no I would not be upset.

I think I cleaned up vomit from SO many years ago. That is so gross that I cannot remember. He was laid out so I don't think he cleaned it up.
 
Oddly, this situation happened to me two years ago. I was upset, because I very ill, bed-bound, and too weak to even use my wheelchair, and SO at the time would not help me clean it up. :nono: His BF came over and cleaned it for me; he even drew me a bath, brushed my teeth, and carried me to and from the bathroom.

That ex is an ex for multiple reasons, but his refusal to help really hurt me since he was very aware of my health issues.
 
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