Would you be upset if your husband went to the stripclub?

letskeepntouch said:
See that's part of that whole gaslighting phenomena that men and women try to put on women. You don't have to be jealous to not want your DH to go to the strip club, IMO. But, some men sure try to make their DW's feel like they are insecure or jealous if they don't want them to go. :drunk: Whatever.

I think it would serve a DH right to come home to DW having her own "not so bachelorette party" with a dancer in the living room when he walked through the door. Most men, if you turn the tables on them, are like ....(:look: But, it's not the same when you do it.) :lol:
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:thankyou: DW taking exception to DH seeing strippers = jealous and insecure BUT DH taking exception to DW seeing strippers = exercising his right to respond how everyone would expect him to... funny how that works. :spinning: (I also "edited" your OP. :look:)
 
letskeepntouch said:
Question and do not hurl LHCF tomatoes at me.

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but what about a strip club with a bunch of half naked women is enjoyable to a heterosexual woman. I'm not judging. I'm just asking.
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I wish you'd been here to see the thread from a few months ago where this was brought up. :giggle: Things got interesting and the thread got poofed. :look:
 
SUPER SWEET said:
It's just once in a while nope but it's it spending up checks, rent money every weekn then HECK NAW...
As a woman who has had her fair share of Choc thunder,Big Ross,Lawman,Thor shows ect... I can't get mad.:lol:
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SUPER SWEET - i rememba when Choc Thunda did a show here in DC!! Lawd ha merci chile......

*fans self wif popcicle stick fan wif MLK on da front & Woody's Funeral Home on da otha side*

Those were da days!
 
letskeepntouch said:
Question and do not hurl LHCF tomatoes at me.

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but what about a strip club with a bunch of half naked women is enjoyable to a heterosexual woman. I'm not judging. I'm just asking.
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That's always been my question. I don't understand it.

And to answer the OP, I wouldn't want any husband of mine doing that.
 
it wouldn't be happening because who i marry will only want to make it rain on me. :eyebrows2 i used to be open to the idea of going to the strip club with a guy but after seeing recent pictures, i'm not impressed. :yawn:
 
I would want to go myself and be miffed if he didn't tell me. If he let me know that he was going, I would buy him a lap dance.

To answer the hetero woman liking strip clubs, I thing attraction is fluid. I can appreciate the female form and the skill of strippers.
 
I could careless. As long as he is honest. Then again that man goes nowhere. I have to push him out the house.
 
letskeepntouch said:
A short time later, he had a bad eye infection eye pain, puss, etc. He caught Gonorrhea in his eyeball! While untangling his infectious web of deceit, she found out he contracted it from at a strip club. *shrugs* I didn't even know you could get that in your eyeball.
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WTF? How does that even happen?

letskeepntouch said:
Of course he was doing more than looking. He got a BJ and apparently did a lot of touching. I was not trying to insinuate that he got G from doing this.
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Never seen that gif before, but its perfect! :lachen:

ThatJerseyGirl said:
@SUPER SWEET - i rememba when Choc Thunda did a show here in DC!! Lawd ha merci chile......

*fans self wif popcicle stick fan wif MLK on da front & Woody's Funeral Home on da otha side*

Those were da days!
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:rofl:
 
Eh, I'm not so cool with the idea. It's not really a matter of the women being intimidating.. but, my theory on strip clubs and married men is this; I don't want my husband in no club throwing OUR money on dancing ladies.. NOR would I want my husband in a strip club just " looking " and not spending. To side with the ladies for a second, I feel like no man should be in the strip club not tipping something.. and if you're too married to tip, you're too married to be in a strip club.
 
Is this a one-off or he is hitting the strip joint multiple times a month?

I don't think I'd be happy wanting to go there often like it was a bar. Part of your responsibility in a relationship is keeping your sexy game on point. You need to keep it fresh and exciting. I WANT to offer him all that. I also feel that men who go to strip clubs too often sometimes suffer from Madonna vs Whore complex. I don't want him to think that he can't explore all his fantasies etc with me cos I'm 'pure'.
 
AB200 said:
Yes. Because I have unreasonable insecurities that I have been unable to overcome. I still get mad when I think about him going to a strip club for his bachelor party ten years ago. Oh yeah, I have issues.
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I love your honesty here!!!!
 
No. Stripping is a job and most girls are there for $$$ and are not thinking about dating somebody's man. Shoot the really good ones are usually lesbians. I really wouldnt have a problem unless he was tricking off big $$$ all the time.

Now if I was insecure, or couldn't work a pole myself I guess it might bother me. But what is some random stripper gonna do for your man that you cant, unless he was looking to cheat anyway? Shoot judging the looks of some of the girls from the KOD thread in the E.T section, if thats what on stage men are better off at home anyway.
 
AB200 said:
what's worse is that I've seen male strippers and enjoyed them! I know it doesn't mean anything, but I still worry that I'm being compared to these hot women who have attributes I will never possess.
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Trust you are not alone in this. A lot are just not as honest/Candid as you are.
 
i haven't read the whole thread yet....but hell no I wouldn't be mad!!!! I'm trying to go to the strip club with my man...so glad that i finally have a boyfriend I can share that with! LMAO djm....#teambisexualalldayeveryday
 
Wouldn't mind.
But honestly, my husband can't see nude individuals in certain contexts, and NOT get all red-faced. :blush:

When we had HBO, I used to watch "Real Sex." If he walked in on me viewing, he'd get soooo flustered and say,"...geezus blyss, wth are you watching?"

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Yes, I most certainly would have a problem with Dh going to a strip club. Why would I be ok with my husband going to a place where the main product for sale is arse? It's all about lust and there is enough temptation in everyday life to deal with. Why invite it in your front door? No ma'am Pam. You need to stay focused if you're going to be successful in this marriage. No get out of jail free cards here.
 
Only if he went with me, or if didn't go with me, as long as he did not touch, give money to, or mess around with the strippers, I would be okay.
 
Why would everyone have the same sexuality, or deem it appropriate for their own relationship?

I don't mind that my partner watches porn and I do too. Sometimes together. However, me being around naked men, or partner with naked women isn't for me. Male and female strip clubs don't appeal to me when single, or attached even though I'm not straight. I wouldn't like those places as a regular part of a marriage. Maybe a b'day party rarely, but not for no reason.

I've never had a partner ask me to go to a strip club. If I did then I'd probably get rid because I prefer to keep physical naked sexuality, rubbing, touching and personal shows just between me and my partner.

Same reason I won't dance with other guys while clubbing even though my friends think it's no big deal. I have another friend who doesn't think kissing other people while out is a big thing. You gotta live out your kinks as you see fit and set your own limits. It's a good thing for partners to share something they both find fun.
 
I don't think SO likes me dancing with other guys either. He will never admit it...he's a Scorpio lol
 
I don't care. DH hates strip clubs and I've had to talk him into going. He came back early from his own bachelor party with a pocket full of singles that his friends gave him to use for the night. lol
 
I don't think I would care if it was a 3 times in a lifetime type thing lol

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I will never go with my SO to a strip club again because it got a bit weird...(I was getting wayyyy too much attention from the 8s and 9s and he got a semi from a legit 4/10) haha those days were funny
 
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