TheseStankyLegs
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Okay, so a few weeks ago my BF told me that she was in love with another guy. Her DH (yes, they are married) had no idea. She SAYS she didn't sleep with him during the marriage, but was lusting after him, his body and the way he used to treat her. Her and this guy would communicate through the phone or email. She also was telling me that her rel. was falling apart and she felt like she wanted to leave. She stated that she was at a point where she felt like she needed to be sexually pleased, needed to be told she was beautiful etc and her DH wasn't providing that.
I can say that I have been able to relate to some of the things that she said. I actually NEVER though about cheating on my DH though. It didn't even cross my mind.
Things for my BF have since looked up and they are expecting and happy again. She says that she is glad she never "cheated". IMO, she was cheating, only emotionally, as they would talk for hours while he was at work. I ask her why she didn't (because clearly women can cheat and a man never know) and she says that she doesn't know.
It was the first time in my life that I heard of a woman cheating on her husband/serious boyfriend.
So, here is my question to you ladies:
Have you ever cheated on a DH/DF/DB?
Did you have a reason behind it?
How did you end it? Why?
I think the phenomenon of women cheating is so taboo because we have the ability to bear the results of sex (pregnancy).
I can say that I have been able to relate to some of the things that she said. I actually NEVER though about cheating on my DH though. It didn't even cross my mind.
Things for my BF have since looked up and they are expecting and happy again. She says that she is glad she never "cheated". IMO, she was cheating, only emotionally, as they would talk for hours while he was at work. I ask her why she didn't (because clearly women can cheat and a man never know) and she says that she doesn't know.
It was the first time in my life that I heard of a woman cheating on her husband/serious boyfriend.
So, here is my question to you ladies:
Have you ever cheated on a DH/DF/DB?
Did you have a reason behind it?
How did you end it? Why?
I think the phenomenon of women cheating is so taboo because we have the ability to bear the results of sex (pregnancy).