hello ladies,
I am wondering why are marriages looked down upon these days? Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years and we have been thinking about engagement. He is active duty in the military and have been in for almost a year now. Every time I mention something to someone about engagement and marriage they give me the death stare and act as if it is the end of the world.
I do understand that marriage is not as sacred as it used to be, but if two people genuinely love each other they should be able to get married. Lots of my older coworkers always tell me "oh no, get your running shoes. Don't do it. Don't waste your time" and it angers me because I'm thinking just because it didn't work out In your life doesn't mean that it won't work in mine. There are still quite a few people who get married and stay married til death does them part.
I am wondering why are marriages looked down upon these days? Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years and we have been thinking about engagement. He is active duty in the military and have been in for almost a year now. Every time I mention something to someone about engagement and marriage they give me the death stare and act as if it is the end of the world.
I do understand that marriage is not as sacred as it used to be, but if two people genuinely love each other they should be able to get married. Lots of my older coworkers always tell me "oh no, get your running shoes. Don't do it. Don't waste your time" and it angers me because I'm thinking just because it didn't work out In your life doesn't mean that it won't work in mine. There are still quite a few people who get married and stay married til death does them part.