Perfexion
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So it's been a while since I left my husband. Since then it's been tough being a single mother to my toddler. However, in doing so I discovered a hidden passion of mine and I'm in the process of starting my own home business. It's going to be extra tough juggling my job, my business and all of my home responsibilities in the beginning, but my hope is that my business takes off enough so that I can quit my primary job and mainly work from home so I can be with my little one. I already built up an impressive client list so that might actually happen sooner than later.
My sister convinced me to join Blackpeoplemeet.com so that I can officially move on and start dating again. Just like most of the women here, I mostly get hit on by a lot of older men. I haven't had any real luck dating- most of the men I find interesting or compatible don't seem to be interested in me and vice versa. I've pretty much given up on looking anyway. I have enough on my plate right now. I just discovered however that my loser ex-husband is happily with another woman and she is expecting a baby. They live in government housing together. Neither of them work. The only income they get is a little cash from selling their food stamps. Once the baby is born I imagine they will become eligible for cash assistance. A normal person would step back and say that I won but I don't think so. According to his mother (who is the source), he and his new girlfriend are as happy as clams. They have each other and they don't need money or careers. They're probably going to have a few more kids, stay on welfare and live happily ever after. I would be absolutely miserable living in that situation, whether I had a man or not, but I guess that's just me. All in all I'm happy that I left him and I'm excited for my future endeavors. I just can't believe that my lazy, underachieving, and now deadbeat baby daddy can so easily move on when he has nothing to offer, (at least he had two jobs when we were dating; he was unemployed when I threw him out and he hasn't had a job since) and yet there are so many good single women out there. I'm just venting really, but I know that everyone knows of a loser guy who stays in relationships. I don't get it and it's just not fair! Okay, rant over.
My sister convinced me to join Blackpeoplemeet.com so that I can officially move on and start dating again. Just like most of the women here, I mostly get hit on by a lot of older men. I haven't had any real luck dating- most of the men I find interesting or compatible don't seem to be interested in me and vice versa. I've pretty much given up on looking anyway. I have enough on my plate right now. I just discovered however that my loser ex-husband is happily with another woman and she is expecting a baby. They live in government housing together. Neither of them work. The only income they get is a little cash from selling their food stamps. Once the baby is born I imagine they will become eligible for cash assistance. A normal person would step back and say that I won but I don't think so. According to his mother (who is the source), he and his new girlfriend are as happy as clams. They have each other and they don't need money or careers. They're probably going to have a few more kids, stay on welfare and live happily ever after. I would be absolutely miserable living in that situation, whether I had a man or not, but I guess that's just me. All in all I'm happy that I left him and I'm excited for my future endeavors. I just can't believe that my lazy, underachieving, and now deadbeat baby daddy can so easily move on when he has nothing to offer, (at least he had two jobs when we were dating; he was unemployed when I threw him out and he hasn't had a job since) and yet there are so many good single women out there. I'm just venting really, but I know that everyone knows of a loser guy who stays in relationships. I don't get it and it's just not fair! Okay, rant over.