yora88
Well-Known Member
These are really good points but everything you have mentioned, I think you probably also do this for him as well. To be honest, my bestfriend and I also do some of the same for each other. If this is what being a protector entails a woman could also easily fulfill that role just as much as man. I understand that you particularly don't want to be the protector and provider, but my point is a woman should have a choice as to which role they want to fulfill, or that they could equally share ruling over the household without one person being more domineering than the other.
From my experience, relationships and households run better when the man is the dominant one. When there is equal distribution of power or when the female is the dominant one, things are weird to me. And trust, I know for a fact that a woman is capable of doing any and everything that a man can do, but just because she's capable doesn't mean that she should have to or that it's right. Think about the symbolism of a typical marriage ceremony, a father gives his daughter away to her husband. A father is giving away the responsibility of having to protect and provide for his daughter to her husband.