Slave4Hair
Well-Known Member
I have never been in favor of the whole women should be submissive to men thing. Pretty much because I've never understood why people believe this? My boyfriend preaches this to me to no end. I'm not "submissive enough" I don't "listen" I don't let him, "Have the final word," or make the, "final decision." When I ask him why does he have to be the one doing all of that, he says..."because that's what men do, why is it so hard for you to accept?" This makes me laugh out loud like for real (I think that upsets him even more). So let me get this straight, I'm supposed to submit to you because I don't have a penis?
I understand men are used to being the head of the house hold because historically they were the providers, HOWEVER I'm currently working on my masters and when I'm done I will be making more than him, and I really am looking into PhD programs so I will also have a higher education as well. Now, his salary and education mean nothing to me, but shouldn't the person that who is more suitable be the one who is the head of the household, period? Why does someones sex determine who is "in charge?" Why can't we both sit down as equals and make decisions together without another person having the "final say?" Honestly, if one person is going to have the final say, whats the point in discussing it together at all?
To me submitting is something a dog does for his master, or a child to a parent. It just means weakness and inferiority to me. Maybe I'm a feminist even though I don't think so personally but my SO seems to think I am lol. Words like obey, and submit just really rub me the wrong way. So I was just wondering, ladies how do you feel about submission? I know i'm prob in the minority but i'm interested in seeing this from other points of view.
I understand men are used to being the head of the house hold because historically they were the providers, HOWEVER I'm currently working on my masters and when I'm done I will be making more than him, and I really am looking into PhD programs so I will also have a higher education as well. Now, his salary and education mean nothing to me, but shouldn't the person that who is more suitable be the one who is the head of the household, period? Why does someones sex determine who is "in charge?" Why can't we both sit down as equals and make decisions together without another person having the "final say?" Honestly, if one person is going to have the final say, whats the point in discussing it together at all?
To me submitting is something a dog does for his master, or a child to a parent. It just means weakness and inferiority to me. Maybe I'm a feminist even though I don't think so personally but my SO seems to think I am lol. Words like obey, and submit just really rub me the wrong way. So I was just wondering, ladies how do you feel about submission? I know i'm prob in the minority but i'm interested in seeing this from other points of view.