MonPetite
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WOW, all these negative reactions by men to short hair makes me want to relax, to be sure all of my length is appreciated.
It seems shrinkage will forever keep natural women forever single, alone, unappreciated and unloved. SMH.
This "long hair" thing is seems very Eurocentric.
No one in this thread (and if I missed it, IAIA) is saying men love "Big" AND "Long" hair. Just long the way Europe (and yes, basically everywhere else but Sub-saharan Africa, though colonization has done its job there too and the "conqueror's tastes" have taken root) sees it:
Mostly straight, down your back.
It seems relaxers and flat-irons are the only way to achieve this "down your back" look for black women.
How depressing.
I'm going with my significant hair theory to keep smiling.
I've met so many men who are clearly pleased by a woman's over all beauty, irregardless of hair length.
I didn't even know it was this bad for short haired women until I read this thread.
Truth be told, I was unaware of a lot of "disadvantages" of being Black Woman until I started reading threads in the Off Topic forum.
I've never had issues attracting men of all races with a darn-near fade or TWA.
Perhaps it is an issue of location?
I'm in the midwest...I would think this would be the last place a TWA would get acceptance....
Hmm. Unsettling, this topic is.
It seems shrinkage will forever keep natural women forever single, alone, unappreciated and unloved. SMH.
This "long hair" thing is seems very Eurocentric.
No one in this thread (and if I missed it, IAIA) is saying men love "Big" AND "Long" hair. Just long the way Europe (and yes, basically everywhere else but Sub-saharan Africa, though colonization has done its job there too and the "conqueror's tastes" have taken root) sees it:
Mostly straight, down your back.
It seems relaxers and flat-irons are the only way to achieve this "down your back" look for black women.
How depressing.
I'm going with my significant hair theory to keep smiling.
I've met so many men who are clearly pleased by a woman's over all beauty, irregardless of hair length.
I didn't even know it was this bad for short haired women until I read this thread.
Truth be told, I was unaware of a lot of "disadvantages" of being Black Woman until I started reading threads in the Off Topic forum.
I've never had issues attracting men of all races with a darn-near fade or TWA.
Perhaps it is an issue of location?
I'm in the midwest...I would think this would be the last place a TWA would get acceptance....
Hmm. Unsettling, this topic is.
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