Was this indoor rock climbing? I fell in love with it a few years ago. I need to go more often because there are some really friendly guys in the climbing gym.
Actually she would do both! Indoor and outdoor.
I think she met her bf on the outdoor hikes and rock climbing events though. She would go w/a group of new friends she met who all liked to rock climb, and she met her hubby through them. He would come regularly and they just hit it off!
I think it's one thing to 'meet' men, it's another to actually catch the attention of the type of man you like.
Girl....isn't that the truth....
That's why I've given up the "search".
I am a firm believer in doing stuff you love and having fun. If you are relaxed and taking care of yourself, doing your own thing the men will come, because there are men everywhere. If the sole focus is to attract a man, men can smell thirst a mile off and find it off putting. Even if you don't meet the right man, at least you would be having fun. Life is too short not to live it to the full.
I completely agree with this.
Idk how to NOT come off as "thirsty", so my big goal is just NOT
being thirsty lol.
It seems men can sense it a mile away even if you're trying NOT to come off that way, so I figure, why even try?? Idk if I've reached that "point" yet, but I do feel a LOT different now as opposed to back when I was
trying hard to meet/find somebody. I think I've just found peace in my heart that it iwll come when it comes. #shrug
Trying to figure out how to tell the above more directly to a good friend of mine. She just broke up with her emotionally abusive baby daddy last year and has had several unsuccessful stints at online dating. She is looking for a white guy by force, they are not into her - she's mixed race so I think it's a psychological "trying to get acceptance" issue. She just sent me a message asking to introduce her to a black man I mentioned half a year ago, because the white guys frustrate her. I'm not even a man and I find her thirsty. I have hinted in the past, but I think I need to go beyond hinting now. She needs good counselling.
Wait.....she
deliberately seeks out white guys online?
Or she just rejects all guys who try to talk to her who
aren't white??
I don't get it. I've never done online dating, but how do you look for guys by force on there? I thought you just put your picture up and people either like you or they don't.
Can someone please give tips on where to meet intelligent men? I meet a lot of men with degrees/good jobs but it is rare to meet someone that is well read, intellectually curious, and that can really discuss topics on a deeper level.
Where are the intellectual brothers at???
Mmmm......maybe bookstores??
Universities and college campuses?? lol.. Idk... What do you mean by "intelligent"? You mean a guy who cares about deeper things and can have deep conversations? Even sports-watching dudes can be like that. I think you just have to talk with more guys and guage whether or not they mentally stimulate you or not.