Where did you meet your man - the poll

Survey says?

  • From childhood

    Votes: 16 12.8%
  • Through a friend/family member/other acquaintance

    Votes: 20 16.0%
  • On the street

    Votes: 3 2.4%
  • Church

    Votes: 5 4.0%
  • Work

    Votes: 22 17.6%
  • Online

    Votes: 30 24.0%
  • Random place (store, restaurant, mall, library)

    Votes: 18 14.4%
  • Cultural event of some kind

    Votes: 1 0.8%
  • Pen pal (foreign/prison)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Other

    Votes: 10 8.0%

  • Total voters
    125
  • Poll closed .

mischka

shrinkage.
I think this every time I see that thread up there.

ETA: select "from childhood" to include school/college if you don't want to be more specific. I didn't include college itself bc I think the options include places you would have met "in college"
 
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The club:look:

OT: I hate it when women say you can never meet a decent guy at the club. If indecent people go to clubs, why the hell are you there then??
We can't all meet Mr Right at the post office
 
I wish I could have done more than 10 things

eta: i think club counts as a random place
 
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I met him at his job (holiday party)

Eta: ive heard that he will stay where you meet him. Glad I met him there.

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We met in our running group. He thought my bootie looked hot in my spandex running pants....and that I had a smile that lit up the room! Awe!
 
@DarkHair, Explain......


Why do you regret it?

Well, it's a long distance relationship, he's not always available like I want him, and I have needs.:look: I also find that people who make online dating their main option tend to have a "kid in a candy store" mentality. People you would never come across in your daily life you meet online and it tends to play tricks on you. Meaning there are so many to choose from they can't fully commit until they find that "perfect" one. :rolleyes: So they keep searching even when they find a compatible mate that they actually like. It's been tough and I find myself doing the same thing because there are so many good looking men out there. It's just frustrating.

I'm still a member on two sites, I decided I won't be meeting anyone else. I've gotten to the point of just flirting and KIM.
 
Single ladies that want a man! Take good look at the poll results and interpret what this means to you.

Based on MY understanding the results of this poll means that (to an extent) location does not matter. My job is to look good no matter where I go and be prepared for someone eligible to apply for the position. It has been drilled on the board and in the media that men are visual. This means that they are visual in the grocery store, the club, starbucks, the lounges, etc.

Just be the best internal and external you that you can be. By no means am I perfect because I'm trying to do this exact thing.

I also want to throw out that, so far, only one person has met their man in church?? Hmmmm...
 
shockolate, Explain......
For example, its been said if you meet him in the club its where he'll spend most of his time. At work, same thing. At church, same thing. Its not always true, but there is a pattern.

Mine is always at



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at Burger King - we both worked there during our matriculation at college. He was a freshman and I wa a junior. I didn't want to give him the time of day when I found out initially. But he was so darn cute and really sweet, I eventually gave in.

Those were good times, sneaking off to the freezer to steal kisses. Bad thing though was when we were mad at each other, we would still have to see each other at work (in very close quarters). Everyone was very much aware whenever we were angry with each other, lol. Too young and immature to check our feelings at the door.
 
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