DivineNapps1728
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What do you do? ![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
My "type" is tall, with pretty eyes, broad shoulders, a sense of humor, passionate, with an air of mystery & inner turmoil; they tend to be a bad boy type who's turned over a new leaf.
I believe I go for the disgruntled dude cause connecting on a level where I can help him & him I while we grow together gives me a sense of fulfillment. Problem is I get tired of being my SO's saving grace one hundred percent of the time. On the other hand if I don't feel like I have anything to offer a guy I'm dating as far as help/support/etc I feel like a plaything not a mate.
My question is what's a happy medium between strickly dating your "type" and going for someone you'd never be into just for the heck of it?
I don't want to feel like I'm in the same relationship with the next guy as I was was with the last, but I'm not up for dating whoever just because.
Strangely enough I don't primarily "attract" my type. I attract older men who are more settled, but they scare me because I'm young and un-established or young dudes who seek a challenge.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
My "type" is tall, with pretty eyes, broad shoulders, a sense of humor, passionate, with an air of mystery & inner turmoil; they tend to be a bad boy type who's turned over a new leaf.
I believe I go for the disgruntled dude cause connecting on a level where I can help him & him I while we grow together gives me a sense of fulfillment. Problem is I get tired of being my SO's saving grace one hundred percent of the time. On the other hand if I don't feel like I have anything to offer a guy I'm dating as far as help/support/etc I feel like a plaything not a mate.
My question is what's a happy medium between strickly dating your "type" and going for someone you'd never be into just for the heck of it?
I don't want to feel like I'm in the same relationship with the next guy as I was was with the last, but I'm not up for dating whoever just because.
Strangely enough I don't primarily "attract" my type. I attract older men who are more settled, but they scare me because I'm young and un-established or young dudes who seek a challenge.