JaneBond007
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One day, it will happen to them.
It took me awhile to heal from all the marital upheaval but I'm good. It's quiet, cool, peaceful over here. I thank G-d. Some people think you're a religious zealot (for those who don't have much knowledge, that is your "nutcase") simply for knowing what you know and following it. It is my truth. I go to church, I pray daily. I lead a simple, uncomplicated, private life and that's that. Spreading lies about people is evil, purely. It just plain is. Maybe it's misinformation they had, but I hate it when somebody says, "oh, he left her, blah, blah, blah." NO, he did not. I walked away and surprised him from my lawyer. Why, though? Women want to see another lacking somehow. This is akin to, "she ain't gotta man." Maybe she sent him away?
So, he's dead now, he's at peace, 6 years after the separation/civil divorce. Why do people still lie and try and cause upheaval to the peace of others? Busybodies? I dunno, when you are most involved in your own life, I guess you don't have time to mess in another's. Whenever I'm open about my life, there is always a purpose - to help another who might be in the same situation. It takes time to heal and divorce is not a simple process for anyone. But facts are facts. Well, the shoe can be on the other foot, I hope they know. Women busybodies trying to imply that a husband dumped someone is just wasteful to their own lives.
My heart is so big, I'll still help those who need it and ask for it. I have that much love for them. But I don't appreciate the lies, bitterness, anger and hopelessness they have which they attempt to project upon me. People should know facts before they spread rumors based upon lies, esp. that typically anti-female one - "oh, girl, he left her." Well, no, he didn't. You don't keep begging for reuniting in those cases.
For all the divorcees out there, whether you made the move or he did, hold your heads up! If you are religious, don't sweat the unjust name-calling. They are showing all their inner demons and haterz...you know they are going to hate. You are on the road to complete healing and resolve. Hold your heads up. You have earned this peace.
It took me awhile to heal from all the marital upheaval but I'm good. It's quiet, cool, peaceful over here. I thank G-d. Some people think you're a religious zealot (for those who don't have much knowledge, that is your "nutcase") simply for knowing what you know and following it. It is my truth. I go to church, I pray daily. I lead a simple, uncomplicated, private life and that's that. Spreading lies about people is evil, purely. It just plain is. Maybe it's misinformation they had, but I hate it when somebody says, "oh, he left her, blah, blah, blah." NO, he did not. I walked away and surprised him from my lawyer. Why, though? Women want to see another lacking somehow. This is akin to, "she ain't gotta man." Maybe she sent him away?
So, he's dead now, he's at peace, 6 years after the separation/civil divorce. Why do people still lie and try and cause upheaval to the peace of others? Busybodies? I dunno, when you are most involved in your own life, I guess you don't have time to mess in another's. Whenever I'm open about my life, there is always a purpose - to help another who might be in the same situation. It takes time to heal and divorce is not a simple process for anyone. But facts are facts. Well, the shoe can be on the other foot, I hope they know. Women busybodies trying to imply that a husband dumped someone is just wasteful to their own lives.
My heart is so big, I'll still help those who need it and ask for it. I have that much love for them. But I don't appreciate the lies, bitterness, anger and hopelessness they have which they attempt to project upon me. People should know facts before they spread rumors based upon lies, esp. that typically anti-female one - "oh, girl, he left her." Well, no, he didn't. You don't keep begging for reuniting in those cases.
For all the divorcees out there, whether you made the move or he did, hold your heads up! If you are religious, don't sweat the unjust name-calling. They are showing all their inner demons and haterz...you know they are going to hate. You are on the road to complete healing and resolve. Hold your heads up. You have earned this peace.
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