I just give him my number and tell him to call me.
I used to be the queen of taking numbers and not calling.
Now, if I know I'm not interested, I just say so.
Steve Harvey can go somewhere...
(Yes, there are some good tips in his book, but there's nothing about him that makes him a sound source of advice about dating and relationships.)
It depends on the encounter, our convo, the impression he left on me, and the circumstances in which he gave me his number over taking mine.
I have been 'moved' to initiate contact in the past and I didn't regret it BUT I'm at a point where I'd prefer a man I want and who wants me to take initiative..because I do feel contacting first sets a certain tone over the relationship that I personally grow tired of very quickly. So it's not an ideal scenario if I was looking for something serious. Not so serious, but intrigued? I'd have no problem calling.
I only called a guy first once.....and he never returned the call! I bruise easily, so I'd rather be the one not returning phone calls if anything ...
I give them mine, and discard theirs in front of them. You wan' me? You call me. If I've not attractive enough for you to be willing to put forth the effort to pick up the phone and press 7 numbers - yeah. We ain't got no reason to be talking.
I was told I was a tease a couple of times, and hard to get plenty of times.
I always told them that I don't tease strangers because numnuts is crazay, and being hard to get is better than being easy.
Steve Harvey can go somewhere...
(Yes, there are some good tips in his book, but there's nothing about him that makes him a sound source of advice about dating and relationships.)
If you take his number, and he isn't insisting on having your number to call you, then he's lazy, and you'll be doing all the work from the get go, he doesn't have to pursue you, and that's where you separate the riff-raff from those who might, MIGHT be serious about dating you. BTW if yo have to do the calling, chasing, etc...it means he's not that into you.