When Life Has You Down, Do You Love Life Or Hate It?

JaneBond007

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Question: Right now, in this very second, answer and record well your first inclination. Do you like your life/Are you happy?

Please feel free to add to this thread.

This is a spinny with a religious twist from the good thread in the OT on being satisfied with your life. I thought it would be a good idea over hear to discuss with a christian twist because there are so many of us wanting change.

Proverbs 13:12

12 Hope deferred maketh the heart sick; But when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life.


Do you hate life in the interim? What is the medicine for the sickness? Planning, goals? Do you sit back and take no action, thinking it is best for G-d to lead you? There is a time for everything but we often miss the proper timing. The ant does not give up, building for the future. When he falls, he continues on. He is determined. The sparrow? He never worries about his life. And we humans? With such misery in the world, being that we are the ones with mental faculty, what's our sentiment? Are you kidding me? Of course we worry! Of course we hate life sometimes. But is that kosher? Hating your life, even in that split second you say it or think it?

What use is hating the now? Circumstances can certainly tempt you to hate life but what is your action then? Complaints or praise and action? I thought this thread could solicit scripture and discussion on how to overcome in that dreadful interim of no change, of hardship, whatever it is. It's fruitless to hate it because the situation was predestined. You are in it and can't get out of it. But when you are meant to leave it, if that is His will, your circumstances will change. Can you pray it away? You might, again, according to the will of G-d. But in THIS instant, you are IN it. What's our initial inclination? "Oh, I hate this" or that typical saying we utter without thinking sometimes, out of stress, "I hate my life!"

Psalms 30:8-12

8 To You, O Lord, I called,
And to the Lord I made supplication:
9 “What profit is there in my blood, if I go down to the pit?
Will the dust praise You? Will it declare Your faithfulness?


10 “Hear, O Lord, and be gracious to me;
O Lord, be my helper.”
11 You have turned for me my mourning into dancing;
You have loosed my sackcloth and girded me with gladness,
12 That my [a]soul may sing praise to You and not be silent.
O Lord my God, I will give thanks to You forever.



The tongue has erred against the very life placed within us. Our eternal destiny is not separate from our earthly life in that we work and enjoy life on earth and plan, building for our heavenly future life. We're to love both and protect them. How hard it is sometimes to be gentle to our earthly lives. Who says, "I hate heaven!" Yet, we often think, "gosh, I hate this life!" We can take back the dread and approach life from a different path.




Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.


Deut. 31:8
8 The Lord is the one who goes ahead of you; He will be with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.”


One thing about G-d, He shows us how to get up and try, try, try again. Everyday is new. Every moment is new. If we hate any moment attached to ourselves, which is actually saying that we hate ourselves, in a sense, we miss moments of loving ourselves. We miss the true love of life and can never regain them as our days are limited.
 
Now thinking about it I answered the other post incorrectly. I don't have happiness I have joy.

Here is what I learned:

When you understand Romans 8:28 you are at peace. When you at peace you have joy. I have come to the point where I work hard towards a goal and just like the ant I may need to rebuild if necessary, but I know in the end everything will work out and I will have God's best. Because of this I am enjoying life.

Romans 8:28 (KJV)

"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."
 
I love my life, and I love it enough to fight for it, yet at the same time enough to share my life and what I have to share with others.

Each day, I learn that there's always something that I can give. Even if it's just a smile or a loving prayer.

Just saying "God Bless You" to someone, who didn't expect it, makes their day. There are so many people who are truly searching for God and 'God bless you', brings God's presence into their lives and warms their heart.

So with that alone, yes I love my life, even on the days when I feel down... :yep:
 
I love my life, and I love it enough to fight for it, yet at the same time enough to share my life and what I have to share with others.

Each day, I learn that there's always something that I can give. Even if it's just a smile or a loving prayer.

Just saying "God Bless You" to someone, who didn't expect it, makes their day. There are so many people who are truly searching for God and 'God bless you', brings God's presence into their lives and warms their heart.

So with that alone, yes I love my life, even on the days when I feel down... :yep:

Well, I hope I made your day today with a loving and warm: "God Bless You, Shimmie On A Tuesday morning."
 
I don't love my life, I endure, I long to be out of here, I dream all the time of my home in heaven. No I can't say I love my life at all, I love my family and I am grateful for all the things that God allows me to see in my life and hope and look forward to the day when I can say it was all worth it and that I would do it again.

I will say that I do smile more because things are so bad in my life right now, I have no other choice but to smile because everyday I overcome something, only to have to jump over the next overcoming something.

Still, in all of it God is so, so, so Good and we are to give him praise in every circumstances, especially since we have no ideal what the end result will be, we know we must keep our faith. I just finished reading a book called the Seventh Day Ox, it was really enlightening. At first, I was angry with God for allowing a person to endure so much but then I realize that in this fight there is and will come a time were we will be pushed to our very endurance, can we hold on to our faith.

Totally changed my life. All I can say is I am gearing up for a wonderful testimony and that is how I get through.
 
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JaneBond007

I was just thinking this this morning. There is a part of my life that is extrememly unsettled right now and I had to ask myself... am I happy? As in, am I waiting on this one thing getting fixed to become happy? Have I postponed pleasure in life thinking that this one thing held the key to it all? And if I was doing that...what good am I to my family right now? To myself? I really had to give myself a mental shake and say COILY! Get it together! No reason to WAIT to be happy...be happy now! ENjoy this stage in life...the good and the bad.

Sometimes when we go through storms we just brace ourselves, put our heads down and endure until its over...but we dont have to just endure..we can enjoy! We can celebrate the good, lift our heads up and dance in the rain.

(I am not speaking of joy because I have joy...but not really enjoying the good in my life...happy was a more accurate word for me).
 
I don't love my life, I endure, I long to be out of here, I dream all the time of my home in heaven. No I can't say I love my life at all, I love my family and I am grateful for all the things that God allows me to see in my life and hope and look forward to the day when I can say it was all worth it and that I would do it again.

I will say that I do smile more because things are so bad in my life right now, I have no other choice but to smile because everyday I overcome something, only to have to jump over the next overcoming something.

Still, in all of it God is so, so, so Good and we are to give him praise in every circumstances, especially since we have no ideal what the end result will be, we know we must keep our faith. I just finished reading a book called the Seventh Day Ox, it was really enlightening. At first, I was angry with God for allowing a person to endure so much but then I realize that in this fight there is and will come a time were we will be pushed to our very endurance, can we hold on to our faith.

Totally changed my life. All I can say is I am gearing up for a wonderful testimony and that is how I get through.

blazingthru


I love you... :bighug:
 
I don't love my life, I endure, I long to be out of here, I dream all the time of my home in heaven. No I can't say I love my life at all, I love my family and I am grateful for all the things that God allows me to see in my life and hope and look forward to the day when I can say it was all worth it and that I would do it again.

I will say that I do smile more because things are so bad in my life right now, I have no other choice but to smile because everyday I overcome something, only to have to jump over the next overcoming something.

Still, in all of it God is so, so, so Good and we are to give him praise in every circumstances, especially since we have no ideal what the end result will be, we know we must keep our faith. I just finished reading a book called the Seventh Day Ox, it was really enlightening. At first, I was angry with God for allowing a person to endure so much but then I realize that in this fight there is and will come a time were we will be pushed to our very endurance, can we hold on to our faith.

Totally changed my life. All I can say is I am gearing up for a wonderful testimony and that is how I get through.

CoilyFields... I have to 'Shimmie' (shake) myself as well. Just get it together and not let anything get to me.
 
I don't love my life, I endure, I long to be out of here, I dream all the time of my home in heaven. No I can't say I love my life at all, I love my family and I am grateful for all the things that God allows me to see in my life and hope and look forward to the day when I can say it was all worth it and that I would do it again.

I will say that I do smile more because things are so bad in my life right now, I have no other choice but to smile because everyday I overcome something, only to have to jump over the next overcoming something.

Still, in all of it God is so, so, so Good and we are to give him praise in every circumstances, especially since we have no ideal what the end result will be, we know we must keep our faith. I just finished reading a book called the Seventh Day Ox, it was really enlightening. At first, I was angry with God for allowing a person to endure so much but then I realize that in this fight there is and will come a time were we will be pushed to our very endurance, can we hold on to our faith.

Totally changed my life. All I can say is I am gearing up for a wonderful testimony and that is how I get through.

Some of how we think is so deeply ingrained in American culture, particularly christian culture, that we fail to see that life is to be lived on earth abundantly. G-d loves the earth that He created and that He put people onto. We were meant to live this life well and as for the lack as a result of an imperfect place due to sin, we're supposed to share and repair the world around us. We have the power to do so. But if we don't appreciate this life here?

If G-d didn't intend for us to enjoy life here, He would have just created heaven. And in heaven, everybody is going to have a story to tell of how they persevered, how they enjoyed life etc. If we only focus on the rewards, we won't have much of a story to tell.

I'm musing and just thinking of this in general so you all know I'm not trying to tell people what to do. But these thoughts came to me yesterday based upon another thread, about the importance of being in the moment, no matter what (this thread is not my personal ordeal). And longing does make the heart sick. It surely does. And I often wonder if we are being honest with ourselves. How do we define "happy" and "joyous?" Are we deflecting as not to feel shame for falling short? Going through the motions? Are we afraid to admit anything for appearing weak? I dunno.

But, @blazingthru you have been through a heck of a lot and I want you to feel peace. Don't give up and dream about heaven, you are here today. Don't waste time. Embrace it because once it's gone, it's gone. I also think that maybe you should seek some type of spiritual counseling because it could be depression. You deserve the help to heal through all of that you had to endure. >>>hugs<<<<
 
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Some of how we think is so deeply ingrained in American culture, particularly christian culture, that we fail to see that life is to be lived on earth abundantly. G-d loves the earth that He created and that He put people onto. We were meant to live this life well and for the lack as a result of an imperfect place due to sin, we're supposed to share and repair the world around us. We have the power to do so. But if we don't appreciate this life here?

If G-d didn't intend for us to enjoy life here, He would have just created heaven. And in heaven, everybody is going to have a story to tell of how they persevered, how they enjoyed life etc. If we only focus on the rewards, we won't have much of a story to tell.

I'm musing and just thinking of this in general so you all know I'm not trying to tell people what to do. But these thoughts came to me yesterday based upon another thread, about the importance of being in the moment, no matter what (this thread is not my personal ordeal). And longing does make the heart sick. It surely does. And I often wonder if we are being honest with ourselves. How do we define "happy" and "joyous?" Are we deflecting as not to feel shame for falling short? Going through the motions? Are we afraid to admit anything for appearing weak? I dunno.

But, @blazingthru you have been through a heck of a lot and I want you to feel peace. Don't give up and dream about heaven, you are here today. Don't waste time. Embrace it because once it's gone, it's gone. I also think that maybe you should seek some type of spiritual counseling because it could be depression. You deserve the help to heal through all of that you had to endure. >>>hugs<<<<

What a beautiful message JB. It gave me something that I needed to 'hear' today. Thank you very much for sharing so much of your heart. This is a wonderful thread. :giveheart:
 
But, @blazingthru you have been through a heck of a lot and I want you to feel peace. Don't give up and dream about heaven, you are here today. Don't waste time. Embrace it because once it's gone, it's gone. I also think that maybe you should seek some type of spiritual counseling because it could be depression. You deserve the help to heal through all of that you had to endure. >>>hugs<<<<

Thank you dear, but I am not depressed I am moving forward, not as fast as I would like, I am facing some really difficult challenges but you know I am building up my faith to face everything and I am trying to see God's hand an everything that is happening. But AMEN if your not facing anything then its something to think about Satan is after folks that love the Lord. So we have to count it all Joy.

One of the things I do that drive my family crazy is I listen to Pandora Radio station Hymns 4 Worship and Country Worship love it. I just be singing all day and night, I wake up with a song. Its making my studies that much more enhanced so again AMEN because God thinks I am worthy and that I can rise above my troubles. You make something a habit you cling to it.
 
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