When it comes to dating, what are your deal breakers?
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winterinatl
All natural!
No car
Kids
bad breath
rudeness
pimp dress code
thug dress code
grillz
Negro-esse
No college/not entrepreneurial
insecurity
FORGETS HOLIDAYS; especially my birthday
Roommates
ETA: thought of some more:
too much hair (dreads, cornrows)
unhealthy looking (too fat, too thin)
plain ole *****, the kind that passes to my kids
Kids
bad breath
rudeness
pimp dress code
thug dress code
grillz
Negro-esse
No college/not entrepreneurial
insecurity
FORGETS HOLIDAYS; especially my birthday
Roommates
ETA: thought of some more:
too much hair (dreads, cornrows)
unhealthy looking (too fat, too thin)
plain ole *****, the kind that passes to my kids
Ms. Plain Jane
New Member
Lack of respect, especially for women
Inconsiderate
Smoker (smoking anything is an automatic dismissal)
BMD
Bad teeth, lol
Male Chauvinist
Irresponsible
No priorities
No goals
No future
Inconsiderate
Smoker (smoking anything is an automatic dismissal)
BMD
Bad teeth, lol
Male Chauvinist
Irresponsible
No priorities
No goals
No future
hothair
Well-Known Member
Got to be hot from the jump off none of that "will grow on me crap" (grooming and carriage go without saying) (YES I'm shallow and proud!)
Succesful and or very ambitious- in whatever field don't have to be rolling in it but it helps
Exposure- have nothing in common with regionals
I'm the queen - u the subject. Period. (His turn will come if we last that long)
no pettiness - silly lies, no grudges, sulking etc I don't do it so get over it
MANNERS - if u're going to be late I should not be the last one to know
ETA: intelligence is always good - not essential but good...
That's about it be entertaining and open minded - and we'll take it from there
Succesful and or very ambitious- in whatever field don't have to be rolling in it but it helps
Exposure- have nothing in common with regionals
I'm the queen - u the subject. Period. (His turn will come if we last that long)
no pettiness - silly lies, no grudges, sulking etc I don't do it so get over it
MANNERS - if u're going to be late I should not be the last one to know
ETA: intelligence is always good - not essential but good...
That's about it be entertaining and open minded - and we'll take it from there
Lucie
Dancin' on sunshine!
- Lazy
- Momma's boy
- Bad feet
- Bad teeth
- Someone that eat's too much. I love to eat but if I always see you eating, that spells t-r-o-u-b-l-e to me
- Children with more than one woman
- No car
- No sense of direction (how come you don't know where you are less than 10 miles from your house?)
- A man who is scared behind the wheel
- No goals
- Gold teeth
- A man with bootleg friends (his friends have to be up to par too)
- Someone with poor diction
- Men who use the n-word
- Small penis (I cannot spend the rest of my life lying about how "big" you are)
- A crooked penis
- An uncircumsized penis
- 2-minute man
- Someone who is unkempt
- A man that does not exercise is a no-no for me In sickness and health might be an issue too early on
- A man without health insurance is a no-no too
- A man that dresses like a thug
Lucie
Dancin' on sunshine!
Got to be hot from the jump off none of that "will grow on me crap" (grooming and carriage go without saying) (YES I'm shallow and proud!)
Succesful and or very ambitious- in whatever field don't have to be rolling in it but it helps
Exposure- have nothing in common with regionals
I'm the queen - u the subject. Period. (His turn will come if we last that long)
no pettiness - silly lies, no grudges, sulking etc I don't do it so get over it
MANNERS - if u're going to be late I should not be the last one to know
ETA: intelligence is always good - not essential but good...
That's about it be entertaining and open minded - and we'll take it from there
How could I forget the bolded in red? I don't play that crap with a man. If you are not on time (give or take 10 minutes) I will not continue communication with him!
Lilakoi’s_Sister
New Member
jobless
kids
uneducated
live at home
disrespectful
always "busy"
no ambition
uninterested in culture
racist and/or anti diversity
close minded
doesn't listen
pompous
cheap
unadventurous
(just to name a few)
eta: married (yuk!)
kids
uneducated
live at home
disrespectful
always "busy"
no ambition
uninterested in culture
racist and/or anti diversity
close minded
doesn't listen
pompous
cheap
unadventurous
(just to name a few)
eta: married (yuk!)
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bluediamond0829
Well-Known Member
late
ugly
smoking
dirty finger nails
dirty clothes
hygeine(mouth etc)
lazy
no goals
children
married
separated
no car
drama
disrespectful
alot of cursing
gay acting
cheap
doesnt talk
talks too much
no goals
doesnt workout or not healthy
not supportive
negative
close minded
shallow
no swag
too ghetto/hood
no etiquette
not educated
too busy
ugly
smoking
dirty finger nails
dirty clothes
hygeine(mouth etc)
lazy
no goals
children
married
separated
no car
drama
disrespectful
alot of cursing
gay acting
cheap
doesnt talk
talks too much
no goals
doesnt workout or not healthy
not supportive
negative
close minded
shallow
no swag
too ghetto/hood
no etiquette
not educated
too busy
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noemi
Well-Known Member
No car
Kids
bad breath
rudeness
pimp dress code
thug dress code
grillz
Negro-esse
No college/not entrepreneurial
insecurity
FORGETS HOLIDAYS; especially my birthday
Roommates
ETA: thought of some more:
too much hair (dreads, cornrows)
unhealthy looking (too fat, too thin)
plain ole *****, the kind that passes to my kids
ITA with what everyone is saying. I would like to add:
smokers,
dentures (if you got your teeth beat out your face there is a SERIOUS reason for that and it can't be a good one)
constant texters
a flashy car and a "house" in the hood (can't be a good reason why you drive a big whip and not have the home to match
Determined22
New Member
No job
No car
More than 1 child
No manners/not chilvarious
Too aggressive
Abusive in any way
Shorter than me (i'm 5'5")
No personality
Thugged out
Drug user
Gay or "formerly gay"
Married or in a relationship with someone else
Morbidly obese
Stinky or dirty
Too pretentious
Threatened by my success
Sam Cassell ugly
No car
More than 1 child
No manners/not chilvarious
Too aggressive
Abusive in any way
Shorter than me (i'm 5'5")
No personality
Thugged out
Drug user
Gay or "formerly gay"
Married or in a relationship with someone else
Morbidly obese
Stinky or dirty
Too pretentious
Threatened by my success
Sam Cassell ugly
Lazy
Lack of Ambition
Procrastinator
Bad with Money (saving, paying bills)
Not handling business...period!
Being a push over
Weak (physically & mentally)
Baby Momma Drama ( I'd prefer no kids at all)
Not Clean
No Car
No job
Bad Sex
Legal problems
Having a Roommate or living with someone (I don't care who it is...family or friends) for whatever reason
ETA: Abuse (mentally, physically, emotionally,)
Lack of Ambition
Procrastinator
Bad with Money (saving, paying bills)
Not handling business...period!
Being a push over
Weak (physically & mentally)
Baby Momma Drama ( I'd prefer no kids at all)
Not Clean
No Car
No job
Bad Sex
Legal problems
Having a Roommate or living with someone (I don't care who it is...family or friends) for whatever reason
ETA: Abuse (mentally, physically, emotionally,)
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NYAmicas
Seeker
starfish
Well-Known Member
- Ugly
- No ambition
- No manners
- Have a very nice car and rents
- Tries to keep up with the Jonses
- Dull
- Blames his problems/faults on something/everybody else
- Short (under 5'6")
- A liar
- No healthy relationships
- Not putting any effort into courting me
- Heavy drinker
- Drug use
- Uncomfortable with nudity (I'm a nudist, and as trite as that seems it bothers ALOT of men)
caramelcutieinva
New Member
jobless
dumb
immature
boring
kids
married
overweight
rude
smoker
addicts
perverts
dumb
immature
boring
kids
married
overweight
rude
smoker
addicts
perverts
CHECKMATE!
New Member
broke
unkept
cheap
unworldly
ungodly
no car
no manners
bad teeth/breath
uncircum...neva' mind,I digress
unkept
cheap
unworldly
ungodly
no car
no manners
bad teeth/breath
uncircum...neva' mind,I digress
simplertimes
Well-Known Member
We are here ><
...Also:
1. Cheap
2. Wandering eyes
3. Short (except I'm really feeling this munchkin I met the other day so I don't know
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prettypuff1
New Member
Short
Ugly
Mentally Nuts
Selfish
Married
Selfish
More than one child
Mommas Boy
Religious Freak
Playas
anyone who works in " the studio"
doesn't like kids
Liars
Abusive men
Jobless
Poor Credit
Ugly
Mentally Nuts
Selfish
Married
Selfish
More than one child
Mommas Boy
Religious Freak
Playas
anyone who works in " the studio"
doesn't like kids
Liars
Abusive men
Jobless
Poor Credit
darkangel25
New Member
kids
pervert
has a record
rude
abusive
heavy drinker
drugs
excessive smoker
too short
poor hygiene
unrealistic aspirations
jobless (unless rich)
terminal illness
bad teeth
married
too many sexual partners
pervert
has a record
rude
abusive
heavy drinker
drugs
excessive smoker
too short
poor hygiene
unrealistic aspirations
jobless (unless rich)
terminal illness
bad teeth
married
too many sexual partners
blueabyss333
New Member
No one said if he doesn't love Jesus?
tyboogie
Member
Doesn't love Jesus
broke
2 or more baby mammas
baby mamma drama
broke
no job
no crib
stays with parents or siblings
no education
smokes weed heavily or uses any other drugs heavily
no car
fat
doesn't like kids
likes kids too much (pervert)
no ambition
too thugged out
dresses like a thug (even though in my younger days this was a must)
can't get with my busy life
broke
2 or more baby mammas
baby mamma drama
broke
no job
no crib
stays with parents or siblings
no education
smokes weed heavily or uses any other drugs heavily
no car
fat
doesn't like kids
likes kids too much (pervert)
no ambition
too thugged out
dresses like a thug (even though in my younger days this was a must)
can't get with my busy life
bluediamond0829
Well-Known Member
Recently met a guy and have this to add to it.
ITA too thugged out
too much cursing
too persistent and pushy(already after just talking on the phone saying we going to be together and im the total package for him)
drunk when on the phone(this is total turnoff)(quick story i called him last night so im just talking i notice that on the first time we talked on the phone he was much more talkative and he seemed to just be very quiet and not saying anything i thought it was because he was tired or something so i told him i'll let him go to bed since he had to get up early in the morning i talk to him in the morning come to find out he had some Hennessy and basically couldnt even hardly remember talking to me)---major deal breaker and not a good sign....
immature
a bum
ITA too thugged out
too much cursing
too persistent and pushy(already after just talking on the phone saying we going to be together and im the total package for him)
drunk when on the phone(this is total turnoff)(quick story i called him last night so im just talking i notice that on the first time we talked on the phone he was much more talkative and he seemed to just be very quiet and not saying anything i thought it was because he was tired or something so i told him i'll let him go to bed since he had to get up early in the morning i talk to him in the morning come to find out he had some Hennessy and basically couldnt even hardly remember talking to me)---major deal breaker and not a good sign....
immature
a bum
beautifulisaunderstatment
New Member
Alcoholic, smoker, kids, disrespectful, messed up shoes, no job, no car, no goals, no high school diploma, prison record, sloppy eater, overweight, hairy, bald, over 8 years my senior, younger, short, bad teeth, dirty, stinky, no personality, sweaty or non Christian.
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