misskris816
Well-Known Member
Ladies, I need your honest feedback, please.
I have been dating an older man who I have a lot of fun with when we're together. I'm not conceited at all, but I have to be honest... I'm not used to being with a man who doesn't try to see me everyday and isn't calling me every night. I talk to this guy about 4-5 times a week on the phone during the evening/night, but those days he doesn't call really bothers me. I actually caught myself thinking, "Why would he not want to talk to me? He must be crazy." We are not exclusive (we haven't really even talked about it), so there is no obligation to each other at this point in time. One of my guy friends said I should tell him that I don't like the fact that he doesn't call me everyday, but I don't want to be the "needy girl". Besides, that would probably freak him out.
Anyway, it's been hard getting used to because in my last relationship (even in the early stages), we would talk 3-4 times a day. So, I guess I take it as some sort of rejection when he doesn't call.
Am I just being insecure or are my expectations reasonable? Don't spare my feelings .
I have been dating an older man who I have a lot of fun with when we're together. I'm not conceited at all, but I have to be honest... I'm not used to being with a man who doesn't try to see me everyday and isn't calling me every night. I talk to this guy about 4-5 times a week on the phone during the evening/night, but those days he doesn't call really bothers me. I actually caught myself thinking, "Why would he not want to talk to me? He must be crazy." We are not exclusive (we haven't really even talked about it), so there is no obligation to each other at this point in time. One of my guy friends said I should tell him that I don't like the fact that he doesn't call me everyday, but I don't want to be the "needy girl". Besides, that would probably freak him out.
Anyway, it's been hard getting used to because in my last relationship (even in the early stages), we would talk 3-4 times a day. So, I guess I take it as some sort of rejection when he doesn't call.
Am I just being insecure or are my expectations reasonable? Don't spare my feelings .