When Do You Tell a Man that You do Not Engage in PreMarital Sex?

[shunemite]

I always bring it up in like the first week. I tell him, "there's a lot of things we'll do together as a couple. Sex isn't one of them. So if that's something you need in a relationship you might as well dump me right now". I'm 26, and I've never been dumped because I never had sex with the guy!

 

[firecracker]

First let me say that I totally appreciate you for this civil response...things have been getting outta hand around here lately.
And I agree that the double standard in our society is ridiculous. This is part of the reason I don't adhere to any particular religous sect b/c frankly some of it is sexist shullbit, and there is no male or female in Christ. So the idea, IMO, is that the man can see the value in remaining abstinent (i.e. no baby mommas, diseases, etc) and we can mutually benefit from the other being smart prior to our romantic venture.

Sho ya rite!