Rapunzel2B
New Member
Sorry Rapunzel...I'm just now seeing your post.
A couple years ago, I stretched for 14 weeks. Although I thoroughly detangled my hair once per week, my hair had still developed tangles. There was even a section that had matted. I'm a self-relaxer, and I struggled through my touchup, trying to limit application/smoothing time while not ripping all my hair out in the process.
So, I asked myself, why do I even bother to stretch? Overlapping?...Not a problem because I drench my previously-relaxed ends with oil and usually have at least an inch of new growth, which is enough for me. Reduced chemical exposure?...Not a concern because since I texlax, the relaxer creme is rinsed off in about 12 minutes. Extra thickness?...Again, not a concern because since I texlax, I still have plenty of texture, strength and thickness.
Consequently, I am no longer a stretcher. I texlax every 8 weeks.
Thanks so much Prospurr4! This makes perfect sense to me. I will be 14 wks on Monday. Everything has been going so smooth and then I washed this morning and my hair is rebelling. I have even been detangling every day to make sure all shed hair was removed. I will be self relaxing on Monday or Tuesday and I am considering not going this long again for all the reasons you stated. I hadn't even considering the effect on the relaxing process. Plus the big thing for me is all the time I spend out of my life with the extra careful detangling process. I am a 4bzzz and when I get a lot of ng if I don't detangle every day I also get little knots out of the blue. The info the you and Tarae provided has helped me so much.
