To be equally yoked in several ways.
Financially (if not I have to be the one with less)
Spiritually (he must be able to lead our family in the biblical sense),
Physically (he has to practice good health-working out regularly, eating right, and always working to improve and maintain)
Mentally (we all have issues but it's how you deal with them. He has to have enough self-awareness to know his issues and be willing to address fixing them...if his issues require psychotropic meds...then no)
And the absolutely no negotiating must have - WE MUST HAVE BANGING CHEMISTRY...LIKE DAMN NEAR ANIMAL ATTRACTION...if bolded means screaming then yeah that one I'm screaming on. It's just to important to play with.
To be equally yoked in several ways.
Financially (if not I have to be the one with less)
Spiritually (he must be able to lead our family in the biblical sense),
Physically (he has to practice good health-working out regularly, eating right, and always working to improve and maintain)
Mentally (we all have issues but it's how you deal with them. He has to have enough self-awareness to know his issues and be willing to address fixing them...if his issues require psychotropic meds...then no)
And the absolutely no negotiating must have - WE MUST HAVE BANGING CHEMISTRY...LIKE DAMN NEAR ANIMAL ATTRACTION...if bolded means screaming then yeah that one I'm screaming on. It's just to important to play with.
One that is odd is a non sports fan. I really dont want an SO who zones out in front of the TV every Monday night for football or spendsa lot of time on sports teams. Casual viewership is fine, but I would prefer a non fan of major US sports.
One that is odd is a non sports fan. I really dont want an SO who zones out in front of the TV every Monday night for football or spendsa lot of time on sports teams. Casual viewership is fine, but I would prefer a non fan of major US sports.
Good references - Can't hear anything troubling from either his associates, or enemies.
Keen - He must like me at least as much as I like myself. He must like me much more than I like him. I'm not feeling men who take ages to warm up to women. They need to feel struck down by my personality and looks from day one. Acting foolish and what not.
Gentlemanly - treats me well
Ambitious
Degree educated preferred - Although I'd date a man who is self made, or climbed the ladder.
Stable work history
Fit and healthy
Intelligent
No kids
Pays for everything
Honest to a fault
Stands by word - Sticks to plans, keeps promises.
Attractive/sexy to me
No Mommies boys
I made my list a few weeks ago. My list is actually 20 items exact. I want to whittle it down to 10 or 12 because a good amount of the specifics are character traits repeated differently or something that I can negotiate. Here is my list whittled down to 12 items that are non negotiable. 1. Abides by a strong moral code 2. Good and healthy relationship with parents and family 3. Strong conviction on the sacredness of fidelity 4. He pursues and loves me passionately and loves me a little more than I love him 5. Has no prior marriage, children, or offenses 6. Highly motivated with ambition, drive, and a firm work ethic 7. Marriage minded and is committed to the commitment of marriage itself, ie does not believe in divorce 8. Loves children and desires to be a father 9. Has the drive, capacity, and desire to be the breadwinner of the family 10. Good conversationalist and a good companion 11. Cultured and has traveling aspirations 12. Atheistic or Agnostic