Hi Whimsy! I love your hair. I've recently started using a spray bottle every morning to dampen my hair so I can detangle and wet bun without having to soak my head in the shower. My bottle contains a blob of aloe vera gel, a blob of Kinky Curly Knot Today leave-in, fill the bottom of the bottle with Suave Naturals Strawberry conditioner, and the rest is distilled water. My hair has been extremely moisturized and soft the past two weeks using this mix.