What the heck do I do...
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LoL...Yeah I wouldn't say anything to anyone who looked busy anyway. Thanks Chica. It's like I wanna seem interested without seeming interested. I know that seems weird but, if anything were to happen (ie he isn't interested, but could tell I was interested) I would be SOOOOOOOOOO embarassed. I would never go to that store again... AGAIN!!!! LoL
tiara76
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the secret to women who get treated like they are desperate no matter how they try to "act" is that the desperation is in the energy
not the actions....
there are desperate women who go all out doing the most, chasing, begging, sacrificing of self and get treated like desperate women..there are desperate women who follow all the "rules" and get treated like desperate women and ran all over....
men like women who like themselves...confidence is a trait of a woman who likes herself
fear of rejection from another is a signal that there is an aspect of ourselves we need to look at accept embrace/and or change, take that fear as a blessing and opportunity to look at yourself and move into those higher levels of confidence
the higher one's confidence levels gets the more one realizes that people's behaviors is not personal to them, its personal to that other person.....if you express interest in another person and they are not interested in you its really not you, its them....even if you are not their personal type, its not you its them....
you can't make somebody be attracted to you or like you when they are not, or not be gay if they are, or not be faithful to a wife or a girlfriend they may have, or not be scared of you or not be anything of various possibilities that are personal to them as to why they are not vibing or attracting to you or acting on their attraction or vibe to you
most of us don't take this into account and automatically assume something must be wrong with us if they dont like us and usually the ones who we don't think like us are the ones we desperately want to make like/love us...its all projection and reflection back to the self
expression of self thrives the spirit..repression of self wittles it....when we repress and only express based on somebody else's actions or response first we are giving other people the power to wittle our own spirit
ok off the deep box now...Hope you figure it out mama
not the actions....
there are desperate women who go all out doing the most, chasing, begging, sacrificing of self and get treated like desperate women..there are desperate women who follow all the "rules" and get treated like desperate women and ran all over....
men like women who like themselves...confidence is a trait of a woman who likes herself
fear of rejection from another is a signal that there is an aspect of ourselves we need to look at accept embrace/and or change, take that fear as a blessing and opportunity to look at yourself and move into those higher levels of confidence
the higher one's confidence levels gets the more one realizes that people's behaviors is not personal to them, its personal to that other person.....if you express interest in another person and they are not interested in you its really not you, its them....even if you are not their personal type, its not you its them....
you can't make somebody be attracted to you or like you when they are not, or not be gay if they are, or not be faithful to a wife or a girlfriend they may have, or not be scared of you or not be anything of various possibilities that are personal to them as to why they are not vibing or attracting to you or acting on their attraction or vibe to you
most of us don't take this into account and automatically assume something must be wrong with us if they dont like us and usually the ones who we don't think like us are the ones we desperately want to make like/love us...its all projection and reflection back to the self
expression of self thrives the spirit..repression of self wittles it....when we repress and only express based on somebody else's actions or response first we are giving other people the power to wittle our own spirit
ok off the deep box now...Hope you figure it out mama
Wow... wow... wow... That was deep. But, it was good though. Seriously I always love your answers. You can tell that you breed confidence even through your answers... The last part is soooo true. I have always hated rejection in anything. The answer no just scares me. Always has. I think it probably has something to do with me being an only child just me and my mom. So I didn't hear it much.
But, thanks, your answer is definitely something to think about...
But, thanks, your answer is definitely something to think about...
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kweenameena
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chokolate miss
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HaHa! I say that all of the time. And it IS backwards!! You know want to know if he will bite and just in case he isn't you will save face. Trust me I know all about this...but it will get you nowhere, because the guy usually starts thinking that you hate him and that is totally not what's happening!
You have to put yourself out there a bit, in order to get what you truely want...
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