FlawedBeauty
Well-Known Member
Okay so heres the scoop. I have a friend that wants to call it quits with his woman. He lives with her and her three children, one of which is theirs (their child may be like 3 yrs old).
Now, the problem is she doesn't want to let him go, and he doesn't want to be with her but he doesnt just want to leave her and the kids because she's got nothing. And I do mean nothing, he pays all the bills, she doesnt work and is not on welfare (cash assistance). Even takes care of the other 2 kids as well as his because the other father doesnt at all. Basically if he left she would be arse out.
Now he's tried to compromise with her and tell her that he will still take care of her until she gets on her feet but they just can't be together, but shes not tryin to hear all that. He spent the night away from his house and went to his mother's to clear his head a bit. So she starts calling the mothers house nonstop and before u know it she ends up over there and starts with the drama.
He asks me what I think he should do but i dunno its tough for me to say because on the one hand thats a grown woman and oh well if she can't support herself but on the other hand they have the kid so if shes s*** outta luck so is his child. What would u tell him??
Now, the problem is she doesn't want to let him go, and he doesn't want to be with her but he doesnt just want to leave her and the kids because she's got nothing. And I do mean nothing, he pays all the bills, she doesnt work and is not on welfare (cash assistance). Even takes care of the other 2 kids as well as his because the other father doesnt at all. Basically if he left she would be arse out.
Now he's tried to compromise with her and tell her that he will still take care of her until she gets on her feet but they just can't be together, but shes not tryin to hear all that. He spent the night away from his house and went to his mother's to clear his head a bit. So she starts calling the mothers house nonstop and before u know it she ends up over there and starts with the drama.
He asks me what I think he should do but i dunno its tough for me to say because on the one hand thats a grown woman and oh well if she can't support herself but on the other hand they have the kid so if shes s*** outta luck so is his child. What would u tell him??