Is your husband/SO/brother/uncle/father/friend a good father? And why do think they are?
I don't have much experience with this be it that my real father wasn't around and I'm not particularly close to any men who are fathers, so please forgive my ignorance on the subject.
The below two situations made me want to pose this question.
Scenario one-I have a family member who has a coworker who travels for his job. He is older and has been with this company for years, he could work in the main office if he wanted to and see his family every day, but he chooses to do 100% travel bc he likes being on the road. He probably actually could retire at this point if he really wanted to. He is married and has a son who is about 12 or so. Question: can you be a good father only seeing your family on the weekends...basically being a part time parent...by choice?
Scenario two- I have a friend who's father is very financially/professionally successful. He has mutiple children spread out across different women, never married any of them. And my friend has seen him first hand be disrespectful to his mother (calling her a *****) and he has also hit his mom before. His father lives in another state and he spent summer/holidays with his father growing up and always stayed in touch by phone. His father has always supported him financially. He praises his father as being a good father and says that the way he treats women is irrelevant in accessing him as a father. Question: Can you really be a good father if you are not leading by example and disrespecting women in front of your son?
I don't have much experience with this be it that my real father wasn't around and I'm not particularly close to any men who are fathers, so please forgive my ignorance on the subject.
The below two situations made me want to pose this question.
Scenario one-I have a family member who has a coworker who travels for his job. He is older and has been with this company for years, he could work in the main office if he wanted to and see his family every day, but he chooses to do 100% travel bc he likes being on the road. He probably actually could retire at this point if he really wanted to. He is married and has a son who is about 12 or so. Question: can you be a good father only seeing your family on the weekends...basically being a part time parent...by choice?
Scenario two- I have a friend who's father is very financially/professionally successful. He has mutiple children spread out across different women, never married any of them. And my friend has seen him first hand be disrespectful to his mother (calling her a *****) and he has also hit his mom before. His father lives in another state and he spent summer/holidays with his father growing up and always stayed in touch by phone. His father has always supported him financially. He praises his father as being a good father and says that the way he treats women is irrelevant in accessing him as a father. Question: Can you really be a good father if you are not leading by example and disrespecting women in front of your son?