What kind of wife are you/would you like to be?

[CarLiTa]

And, for the unmarried women, do you have the qualities of that wife now?

I would just like to hear what people have think about that question.

People say "wifey material" as if being a wife is somehow one-dimensional and "you either got it or you don't" ... and there is no definition of what that "wifey material" really means.

I guess when I think about being my future husband's wife, I am not just thinking in terms of cooking, cleaning, etc.

I am more thinking about whether I am emotionally ready, ready to do the practical things like run a household (though I do not want children until at least 5 years after marriage), and share my space with someone, make decisions together, think for two, and all of that.

Please share your thoughts and self-evaluations.

Thanks