Incognitus
Well-Known Member
What is your dating philosophy? In this case, I’m referring to a monogamous dating relationship (months/years together is irrelevant—for this survey). Some people call it dating exclusively, some people just call it a relationship. You know what I mean…
1- Your lives are so intertwined, his activities become yours, and yours become his.
2- You spend every free moment together.
3- You take on his hobbies and/or activities, more than he does yours
4- He takes on your hobbies and/or activities more than you do his
5- You have your life, he has his life, and then there’s “couple” time.
6- Both of you maintain you pre-relationship activities/hobbies, and try to squeeze each other in.
7- Other
I was having a conversation with a male acquaintance of mine and he told me how him and his ex had a conflicting philosophy on dating. Among other things, she was insecure, jealous, possessive, and obsessed (his words). It seems as though he wanted to continue his activities (work, volunteer, projects, etc) whether or not she was free to or even wanted to join him. This led me to think about my own “dating philosophy” and the type of connection I preferred. I think I fall under the category of wanting my bf and I to spend most (not all) of our free time together, doing our own thing, or his thing, or my thing. I prefer it that way. I know some people can’t handle that, and rather have a lot more downtime. So ladies, what say you?
1- Your lives are so intertwined, his activities become yours, and yours become his.
2- You spend every free moment together.
3- You take on his hobbies and/or activities, more than he does yours
4- He takes on your hobbies and/or activities more than you do his
5- You have your life, he has his life, and then there’s “couple” time.
6- Both of you maintain you pre-relationship activities/hobbies, and try to squeeze each other in.
7- Other
I was having a conversation with a male acquaintance of mine and he told me how him and his ex had a conflicting philosophy on dating. Among other things, she was insecure, jealous, possessive, and obsessed (his words). It seems as though he wanted to continue his activities (work, volunteer, projects, etc) whether or not she was free to or even wanted to join him. This led me to think about my own “dating philosophy” and the type of connection I preferred. I think I fall under the category of wanting my bf and I to spend most (not all) of our free time together, doing our own thing, or his thing, or my thing. I prefer it that way. I know some people can’t handle that, and rather have a lot more downtime. So ladies, what say you?