What is this? Please help (sex related)

[BeautifulMe]

I have been dating this guy for about two months and we decided to have sex last night and when he whipped out his tool, I was in shock. It looked totally normal until I noticed something out of the ordinary. Its rather hard to describe so I'm hoping you ladies can help me out on what this may be.

The hole part on the tip of it is there, but there is a slope on the side of it, so it isn't necessarily a hole anymore. His secretions therefore comes out of the very top of the tubal section that carries the secretions from the testicles to the hole. It is very hard to describe like I said, so I used a diagram.

In the diagram above where it is shaded black, that is what is missing from his penis. The pink shows where the hole should be. I wonder how does he urinate. It's very weird to me. Here are the top 3 things that came to my mind LOL:

1. He/she had a sex change and didn't tell me
2. He must have had some type of medical issue where they had no choice but to chop it off.
3. It must have been an accident when he was getting circumcised.

Please help me shed some light on this.

 

[FearlessNik]

Wow. That's a first for me! Why don't you just ask him? You know here on LHCF we can get creative.

 

[BeautifulMe]

I asked him and he said he was born that way and that he doesn't look at penises so he doesn't know what's normal or not.

 

[deltagyrl]

Did he handle his biz though???

*dead* at the diagram...

 

[gabulldawg]

I asked him and he said he was born that way and that he doesn't look at penises so he doesn't know what's normal or not.

I'm still not quite sure about what you are talking about. Wish you could find a pic. But, erm, his response is a lie. I'm a woman, but I've seen plenty of vaginas to know what is "normal" and what is "unique." I've taken sex courses, seen pornos, random pictures, movies, etc. I'm almost 100% positive that he knows that his penis is different. Now why he would lie is a whole different issue.

 

[kblc06]

BeautifulMe It doesn't mean he was born a woman

It's a condition called hypospadias, a congenital defect in which the urethra occurs on the underside of the penis

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypospadias

 

[LaBelleLL]

I asked him and he said he was born that way and that he doesn't look at penises so he doesn't know what's normal or not.

has he ever been to the doc for a routine physical exam? i'm pretty sure the family doctor would have mentioned something to him. or even a penis doctor? a proctologist i believe....

 

[BeautifulMe]

Did he handle his biz though???

*dead* at the diagram...

LOL yeah he did

 

[pookaloo83]

Wayment. What? I'm trying to imagine but I can't.

 

[BeautifulMe]

has he ever been to the doc for a routine physical exam? i'm pretty sure the family doctor would have mentioned something to him. or even a penis doctor? a proctologist i believe....

Honestly, I think he probably knows its not normal but he just didn't want to go into detail about it.

 

[AHeadOfCoils]

BeautifulMe It doesn't mean he was born a woman

It's a condition called hypospadias, a congenital defect in which the urethra occurs on the underside of the penis

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypospadias

Oh hell naw @ that picture! Ain't no waaay!

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

Waymin....hole up

Soooooooo......you had sex with a man with a deformed penis anyway? But why? How do you know where the secretions come out of? Did yall use a condom? We need more paperwork cuz we dont understand shuga.

 

[CarLiTa]

Honestly, I think he probably knows its not normal but he just didn't want to go into detail about it.

Yeah... I imagine it would have to be awkward to explain on the first night. It's different, but, if it works!

 

[BeautifulMe]

Waymin....hole up

Soooooooo......you had sex with a man with a deformed penis anyway? But why? How do you know where the secretions come out of? Did yall use a condom? We need more paperwork cuz we dont understand shuga.

Of course we used one

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Wow, i learn some every day here. He knows it isn't normal, he is just likely embarassed by it. Did the sex feel different?

 

[SUPER SWEET]

Now im curious. Did function properly Was there any difference? If,not dont worry about it.

 

[meesch]

@BeautifulMe It doesn't mean he was born a woman

It's a condition called hypospadias, a congenital defect in which the urethra occurs on the underside of the penis

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypospadias

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

Ok after lookin at dem pics in dat link, i takes my weave n hat off to you...no bullshyt. You shoulda ran in da bathroom n turned da water on and called somebody n asked dat question before u got on top of it.

Afta seein dat, my pussy woulda dried right on up. Im sorry....

 

[Xavier]

I have never heard of this. That link gave me the visual I needed to understand. Well...

It might be a deal breaker for me.

 

[AHeadOfCoils]

ETA: Let me stop being mean.

 

[BeautifulMe]

Now im curious. Did function properly Was there any difference? If,not dont worry about it.

Thhere was sperm in the inside of the condom after we finished and it actually was good. However, I just would get creeped out if I have to touch it. As long as I don't see it

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Wow. I'm actually disappointed by this thread. OP i hope you got the info you were looking for.

 

[BGT]

So there's two openings? One where he ejaculates and another where he urinates?

 

[meesch]

I have never heard of this. That link gave me the visual I needed to understand. Well...

It might be a deal breaker for me.

that page also includes a "bifida" (double) penis, which is a different deformity. what the op described is only the first pic.

 

[TayMac]

He knows he needs to give a warning and explanation for that.

If it's a birth defect..he obviously can't help it and I wouldn't hold it against him.

I'm mad he acting like he don't know his tool is different though.

 

[RocStar]

I have no words.





Yes, I do...OP, if you were concerned about it, my question is why would you continue? If there was even a thought in your mind that he could of been a woman, deformed, etc., wouldn't you want clarification before moving forward?

 

[BeautifulMe]

He knows he needs to give a warning and explanation for that.

If it's a birth defect..he obviously can't help it and I wouldn't hold it against him.

I'm mad he acting like he don't know his tool is different though.

 

[cutiebe2]

I've heard of that! Don't worry

I actually know a little boy who had surgery..his whole way 4 degree which means it was pretty far down the shaft

If the whole is still relatively near the tip it is fine...but if its far down then it can affect reproduction because the man will have aim and shoot to nowhere

ETA:
HE is NOT a woman...the whole just grew out the wrong place. Everything is working fine jsut in wrong spots. Unfortunately many men don't know there is surgery to fix it and parents don't know or don't have the resources to get their child the help they need while they are young.

The little boy I know had two surgeries when he was 5 months old. They made sure not to circumcise him and used his forskin as extra skin to repair it.

 

[cutiebe2]

Also, more men have it then you may think but because they don't have it as severely, they and the woman may never really realize something is off...

ETA: I re-read and I dont know about the piece of penis missing part...but I know the whole can be in the wrong place

 

[sweetvi]

GIRlllllllll.........I could not stop laughing. You attached a picture!!!!!! Oh my goodness..help me! Tears came and everything!