What is a good pomande/oil/serum to lay hair down?

[Kiadodie]

I am giving my hair a break from the flat iron/curling iron. I just do a roller set but my hair is big and I want it to lay down more. Can anyone suggest something I can put on it that will calm it down a bit? Not just the edges, the whole hair. I hate the beauty pagent hair look. Thanks.

 

[Barbara]

I want to know.