Not arguing whether its damaged or not, I'm just fully expecting the same people preaching the damaged gospel everywhere.
If you can have healthy relaxed hair then you can have healthy heat trained hair. If you can't have the healthy heat trained hair welp, sounds like you can't have healthy relaxed hair either, going off the definitions that everyone is using. So I guess I'm just confused why its ok to be alright with 'damaged' straight hair from a relaxer but not ok to be fine with 'damaged' straight hair from a flat iron? When someone says 'hey guys i'm going to relax' where are the armies of do gooders ready to set it straight? lol
lets just assume for the sake of not making this thread beating a dead horse (although its probably too late for that), that everyone who has permanent straight hair is in 'damaged denial'. Everyone can shake their head in dismay over their locks like I'm sure they do to all the relaxed threads on here
![Roll Eyes :rolleyes: :rolleyes:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
and go about their business
I think what got me was the 'it can't possibly be healthy, it must be ready to fall right of your head' vibe that got me more than anything. I mean for all that, hell what have a lot of ladies on LHCF been doing all this time then?