Mandy4610
Well-Known Member
I agree with the bolded, reading through the responses here, I see that heat training seems to work for some people and I can see that heat training is no where near the same as getting a relaxer. Alot of people can handle heat, but can't handle the chemical process of relaxers. Makes sense.I think the answer to your question is that not every body can safely apply chemicals to their hair without adverse effects.
I am a natural and the number one reason I went natural was because I was having adverse reactions to relaxers. It had nothing to do with 'self-identity' or 'dislike for straight hair' or 'going against the grain' etc. I simply did not like the chemical effect. Of course, as I became natural, I came to appreciate the texture of my hair and what not.
However, I don't get why people always say to naturals who straighten their hair frequently "why not get a perm (or relaxer - as I refer to it)". It's like me telling a texlaxed lady, why not just go natural already? I mean, who is to say people's personal reasons for doing their hair one way or another?
I had to point this out because I've heard so many people say that in reference to naturals who straighten their hair all the time or at least frequently.
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